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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    sadly it already has
    Please don't get me wrong - I'm not judging you.

    What's done is done and nothing will change that.

    The power is with you and you alone because only you can break the cycle.

    Avoid alcohol (which I somehow suspect is involved).

    Wait until you are in a stable relationship and understand the other persons intent and with a decent reciprocating guy before progressing to a physical relationship. A good way of finding out about the other person first is spending time with them over several weeks/months ( I know others will say get real but hey, it's worked for me) and making your own decisions about their values and they way they behave/treat other people especially towards women. As the saying goes, people are defined by the company they keep.

    Time heals and as you mature, you can put this down to immaturity/naivety and move on. There is no need to disclose your history to anyone. Indeed, decent, assured and confident guy's have no need to even ask.

    Best wishes, chin up and put this behind you. You can do it.
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    do you usually swallow
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    (Original post by karl pilkington)
    do you usually swallow
    depends how much im attracted to the guy
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    (Original post by uberteknik)
    Please don't get me wrong - I'm not judging you.

    What's done is done and nothing will change that.

    The power is with you and you alone because only you can break the cycle.

    Avoid alcohol (which I somehow suspect is involved).

    Wait until you are in a stable relationship and understand the other persons intent and with a decent reciprocating guy before progressing to a physical relationship. A good way of finding out about the other person first is spending time with them over several weeks/months ( I know others will say get real but hey, it's worked for me) and making your own decisions about their values and they way they behave/treat other people especially towards women. As the saying goes, people are defined by the company they keep.

    Time heals and as you mature, you can put this down to immaturity/naivety and move on. There is no need to disclose your history to anyone. Indeed, decent, assured and confident guy's have no need to even ask.

    Best wishes, chin up and put this behind you. You can do it.
    i dont drink
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    depends how much im attracted to the guy
    no but you must do it because you enjoy it also do you ever worry about hpv
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    Do you honestly enjoy sucking guys that much? You don't even get an orgasm.

    Also, no, I don't really consider it bad. I've just never heard of someone having so much oral sex without penetrative.
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    YES. Very slutty
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ive slept with zero guys but ive sucked off like 13 different guys and kissed like over 20. is that bad. my age is 19
    hows about you make that 14, whats your phone number
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    hows about you make that 14, whats your phone number
    why
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    (Original post by Sorani)
    Do you honestly enjoy sucking guys that much? You don't even get an orgasm.

    Also, no, I don't really consider it bad. I've just never heard of someone having so much oral sex without penetrative.
    ik i dont get pleasure but i like pleasuring guys. im not ready to lose my virginity yet, i may be loose when it comes to sucking but not with sex
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    ik i dont get pleasure but i like pleasuring guys. im not ready to lose my virginity yet, i may be loose when it comes to sucking but not with sex
    lol whats the point? you may as well hold out all together. why are you so adamant at waiting? I'm not going to judge you for that as thats your own personal choice.
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    I think the main problem with large numbers of copulations is the fact that that lifestyle tends to draw you in to all the other seedy haraam behaviours and away from public dawah/zakat. Only marital reproduction can make an honest woman of you; if you absolutely have to you can indulge in this silly bother for the good of the partnership/family unit but reckless copulations with all and sundry just shatter a society.
 
 
 
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