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    (Original post by samiyaab)
    Firstly thank you for your reply(and to others who replied)

    I'm applying for a History degree,and modules vary from uni to uni. The modules at the nearby university do not interest me and there's not as much variety when choosing from the non-compulsory modules. At the other universities I like, the course suits my interests much better and I'd enjoy it more.

    The cost of moving out doesn't bother me, as government loans cover it and the repayment system isn't bad at all.

    What has me moving out got to do with religion? Yes in Islam it is important to obey your parents, but parents also have a duty to their children, yet my parents want me to compromise my education because their culture teaches that it is wrong for females to move out.
    Allah has determined our success and failure, so just go for your best choice. If it is the will of Allah then it will happen inshallah, if it isnt then it won't .
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    samiyaab

    Asalaamu Alaikum

    The other members who have replied to you regarding your situation, SubhanAllah I couldn't have given a better reply.

    I would like to just add that when our parents give us advice it may go against our desires sometimes but they are more mature/experienced and this is what we forget. They probably have thought about it more than you and can see that it may not be benficial to you in the long term, in terms of religion. By this I mean that they probably want to protect you from any fitnah that might become more easily accessible, when away from them.

    Talk to your parents about it calmly and try to understand their position and outlook on it insha'Allah.

    May Allah help you make the right decision and guide you. Ameen.
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    (Original post by h333)
    samiyaab

    Asalaamu Alaikum

    The other members who have replied to you regarding your situation, SubhanAllah I couldn't have given a better reply.

    I would like to just add that when our parents give us advice it may go against our desires sometimes but they are more mature/experienced and this is what we forget. They probably have thought about it more than you and can see that it may not be benficial to you in the long term, in terms of religion. By this I mean that they probably want to protect you from any fitnah that might become more easily accessible, when away from them.

    Talk to your parents about it calmly and try to understand their position and outlook on it insha'Allah.

    May Allah help you make the right decision and guide you. Ameen.
    MaShaAllah your Righteous. I agree basically. I already knew that anyways.
    Ameen
    PRSOM
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    This is so, so important. Especially for muslim women, who may not be as open culturally or otherwise to openly seek help about this due to the obvious nature of the problem.

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    For clarification it is impermissible to do Tarot card readings:

    The Prophet said:

    Whosoever approaches a fortuneteller and believes what he says, has disbelieved in what was revealed to Muhammad.

    [Ahmad, Abu Dawud, Bayhaqe : Authentic]

    The Prophet said:

    The Salah of whoever approaches a fortune teller and asks him about anything will not be accepted for 40 days and nights.

    [Saheeh Muslim]
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    (Original post by IdeasForLife)
    I think some of the Arabs would've been better off without the wealth they found under the ground. Their bank balance grew but their Islam suffered.



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    Chaudry Nawaz would never defy his Saudi masters! this is all a show.
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    (Original post by OGGUS)
    MaShaAllah your Righteous. I agree basically. I already knew that anyways.
    Ameen
    PRSOM
    JazakAllah Khair for your kind words
    (May Allah forgive me) All good is from Allah.
    I really want to say more but I wanted to make it brief and short.

    My mum always says that child is a blessing indeed but can be your worse enemy too. Parents are always looking out no matter what age the child is and feel restless for their child as they only would want good for them. But sometimes we fail to understand unfortunately.
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    (Original post by h333)
    JazakAllah Khair for your kind words
    (May Allah forgive me) All good is from Allah.
    I really want to say more but I wanted to make it brief and short.

    My mum always says that child is a blessing indeed but can be your worse enemy too. Parents are always looking out no matter what age the child is and feel restless for their child as they only would want good for them. But sometimes we fail to understand unfortunately.
    I know what you mean. Jazakallah khair
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    (Original post by OGGUS)
    I know what you mean. Jazakallah khair
    BarakAllahu Feek
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    Asalaamu alaykum 😊

    How is everyone's Thursday? :tea:
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    (Original post by Leukocyte)
    Asalaamu alaykum 😊

    How is everyone's Thursday? :tea:
    Wa alaikum al-salaam.
    Enjoying this beautiful sunny Thursday and looking forward to an extended family shindig later on.
    How about you?
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    Wa'alaykumasalaam



    Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi

    No doubt the oppressors will put false accusations of crime upon the innocent victims.

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    Nu'man b. Bashir reported that Muslims are like one body of a person; if the eye is sore, the whole body aches, and if the head aches, the whole body aches.

    حَدَّثَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ نُمَيْرٍ، حَدَّثَنَا حُمَيْدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ، عَنِ الأَعْمَشِ، عَنْ خَيْثَمَةَ، عَنِ النُّعْمَانِ بْنِ بَشِيرٍ، قَالَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏ "‏ الْمُسْلِمُونَ كَرَجُلٍ وَاحِدٍ إِنِ اشْتَكَى عَيْنُهُ اشْتَكَى كُلُّهُ وَإِنِ اشْتَكَى رَأْسُهُ اشْتَكَى كُلُّهُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏

    Reference : Sahih Muslim 2586 d
    In-book reference : Book 45, Hadith 87
    USC-MSA web (English) reference : Book 32, Hadith 626
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    (Original post by Al-farhan)
    Wa alaikum al-salaam.
    Enjoying this beautiful sunny Thursday and looking forward to an extended family shindig later on.
    How about you?
    All I see is clouds. Swap places (jus for the weather, keep your shindig thing )
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    (Original post by IdeasForLife)
    All I see is clouds. Swap places (jus for the weather, keep your shindig thing )
    Dude, you do not want to pass up a traditional Somali shindig. It is a gathering like no other made up of 3 course meal (2 dessert courses :lol:) and tea/coffee.
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    Over 20 Kurdish activists summarily executed in Iran.
    According to activists the victims were not given fair trial, allowed to represent themselves or get any legal representation.
    According to news sources crimes leveled against them included: '' being a kurd'' and ''being sunni''.
    All victims were prevented from seeing their families (they haven't seen their families for over 3 years) for last farewell.
    Sources:
    http://www.aljazeera.net/news/intern...86%D9%91%D8%A9
    http://aranews.net/2016/08/iran-exec...ges-terrorism/
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    (Original post by Al-farhan)
    Wa alaikum al-salaam.
    Enjoying this beautiful sunny Thursday and looking forward to an extended family shindig later on.
    How about you?
    Nice. Have fun! Will there be lots of children too?

    I'm not up to much today. I'm enjoying the weather in an office lol
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    (Original post by Al-farhan)
    Dude, you do not want to pass up a traditional Somali shindig. It is a gathering like no other made up of 3 course meal (2 dessert courses :lol:) and tea/coffee.
    Okay send the food with the sunshine. :eating:
 
 
 
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