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JUST found boyfriend on a DATING WEBSITE! i created a fake profile.. what to do??? watch

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    Arange a date with in and then when he turns up act normal and if he says anything like 'You're my girlfriend' or 'I know you' play dumb. It will be super awkaward (and funny.) Video this and post results pls.
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    :sexface: Please. This opportunity is god-sent. What you need to do is ask him if has a gf, if he says no then you know the ass deserves whatever he is getting.
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    (Original post by manga)
    i've been chatting to him like this for 3 hours now.. this is exhausting. he has no idea. he said he would be going to bed early to get up for work tomorrow. guess he spends his time doing this.

    i'm crying so hard.. wil the tears eveer end? will i ever find anyone like him again?
    Get with me, it will make him jealous. :raiseeybrows:
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    (Original post by grape:))
    Pretend to be a sexy lady.

    Arrange to meet up.

    Send your dad instead of yourself.

    Win.
    THIS. Do this. Please :puppyeyes:


    OK, in all seriousness, just dump the tosser. If you want to screw with his mind do it but if it's hurting you too much (which it sounds like is from your posts), just break up with him. Quickly. You now know he's a good for nothing ******* and you really don't want to waste anymore of your energy on him. YOU deserve far, far better than him. :hugs:
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    don't jump to conclusions, this doesn't neccesarily mean he wanted to be unfaithful. Some people make profiles on those sites just to see who would be interested in them as some sort of self esteem boost.
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    Entice him into meeting for sex and turn up. See how he reacts.
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    I don't get it. You've been talking to him for 2+ hours now and he STILL hasn't realised it's his gf? you've been together for 3 years, I mean, you kinda just KNOW when it's your partner don't you? those little traits you pick up on, personality, the way you type/speak, slang you may use... I'd of thought it was more obvious anyway

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    I completely sympothise with you, I know how it feels and know how upset/betrayed/hurt you may feel. Now it just depends on what you want to do, you can either talk it through with him in a non-confrontational way OR you can cut all losses and move on. Not as easy as it sounds, but I'm pretty sure being a woman n all () that you'll get through it head held high. Good luck.
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    I think it is sad you are talking to him tbh.

    Just tell him ffs, and end it if you want too, grow up.
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    (Original post by Stefan1991)
    don't jump to conclusions, this doesn't neccesarily mean he wanted to be unfaithful. Some people make profiles on those sites just to see who would be interested in them as some sort of self esteem boost.
    This is very true. There's a world of difference between saying and doing - he may have just gone along with the sex thing for the ego boost.

    Having said that, you should still get rid of him. I know it hurts, we've all been there. Although it doesn't seem like it now, things will get better over time. You say he's special and that you'll never find someone like him again, those are just the emotions speaking. When your judgment becomes clear again, you will realize that he really wasn't that special and that there are plenty of people better than him.

    Sorry you're having to go through this.
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    Just tell him..
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    You met this guy in an ONLINE CHAT and went to a hotel room with him?!
    http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/showthread.php?t=362143

    No offense but should be a hint.
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    His gone behind your back and made a internet dating profile. Kept it secret, knowing it is the wrong thing to do in a relationship. Speaking ill of you and confessing to who he thinks is a stranger of his lack of love for you...

    Why are you still with this person? there is no trust or love. Stop wasting your time and confront him. I wouldn't give him another day, its only another 24 hours where he is treating you with no respect. Confront him.
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    You definitely need to talk about how you're sexually unsatisfied in your present relationship and have been giving yourself weekend treats with men met on the internet just to find the strength to keep going. But it doesn't work! All that happens is that once the temporary high wears off, you come to realise again just how comparatively poorly hung and otherwise inadequate your boyfriend is.

    Then arrange to meet him later in the week at a Starbucks. Get there first, arriving some long while before he turns up, such that you are there when he arrives. Look flustered when he turns up, and make it clear that you want to get the hell out of there as soon as possible, rush your drink down and so on. Drag him out by the hand while frantically looking around you the whole while.

    Then dump him through the website.
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    There are some truly decent people on here. Thank you all...
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    (Original post by manga)
    There are some truly decent people on here. Thank you all...
    no problemos.

    You are gorgeous, by the way. You can do much better than this bloke.
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    The more I've read this thread the more I think it's a troll. And in a way I hope it is.
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    (Original post by manga)
    Just decided to check if his profile was active or not, as i found him on it once before.

    Lo and behold here he is.

    Lying SCUMBAG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!


    I am chatting to him on it now. How far should i take it?

    i am so so hurt and angry and upset. Just want to cry.
    What is he saying to you? Tell him that you're actually committed and ask whether he is... :p:
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    (Original post by Spacecam)
    The more I've read this thread the more I think it's a troll. And in a way I hope it is.
    It's not a troll. I wish to god i was making this up. This is raw emotion. I honestly don't know what to do with myself anymore. Do i wait for him to follow through to dump me? Has he turned me into an insecure masochist? I want to see if everything he's said to my alter ego actually holds true.. he told her he would dump me today. I want to hear the words from his mouth.

    I still love him and want him though
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    (Original post by manga)
    i've been chatting to him like this for 3 hours now.. this is exhausting. he has no idea. he said he would be going to bed early to get up for work tomorrow. guess he spends his time doing this.

    i'm crying so hard.. wil the tears eveer end? will i ever find anyone like him again?

    Omg, you don't want to find someone like him again, KEEP playing him, arrange to meet up with him. On the day, ask what he is doing, go with a friend to the same place and catch him red handed.
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    (Original post by manga)
    Do i wait for him to follow through to dump me? Has he turned me into an insecure masochist? I want to see if everything he's said to my alter ego actually holds true.. he told her he would dump me today. I want to hear the words from his mouth.
    No! You need to move on and forget this *******. He's clearly a cheating worm if he is going to do things like this behind your back.

    Get away while you still can. You can meet other guys, and not ones like this *****.
 
 
 
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