(Original post by what is this)
Give me some pics and studies then.
I have yet to see many ONS outside of clubs, where else would people have them?
Seriously girls have so many options, the average, chubby girl gets hit on by 6+ males and the occasional male model looking guys, why should she consider the average guy because he's funny or confident? Girls don't **** a personality.
People meet through friends, through societies, in bars etc, get chatting and are attracted to each other because they make each other laugh etc. I've had XNS's with loads of girls I've met in a variety of ways.
The idea that girls get it easy and men find it impossible is complete bull****. All attractive people find it relatively easy, all unattractive people find it hard, and everyone inbetween finds it inbetween. You need to get that straight in your head.
Find out how.