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    (Original post by Hindu)
    Just report her for going off topic.

    She is doing it on purpose
    Never knew you could do this in future I will, she is an annoyance.
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    This thread is jokes!
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    Not your fault the op these people have issues.
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    No wayyy! Racism? I always find it common within Indians, Pakistanis and Africans, its sad that people can't see beyond colour -.-. Embrace the racial comments... Chinese women have the most beautiful youthful skin and eyes. So next time you get called "chinky" or whatever. Say thanks!
    With the relationship issues, you just need to find someone compatible... Maybe you haven't found him yet and you just need to wait. You're 20 you have time!! Don't beat yourself up you're beautiful darling!:')

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    The Uk is the most racist country in the world.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    In honest opinion, I'm not here fishing for compliments or sympathy, this is a genuine problem that I'm having and some genuine advice would reassure me.
    I'm a British born Chinese girl, 5'3 and I wouldn't say I was ugly but I'm definitely not pretty - just below average.
    So having been living in the UK for all my life, I've always been a victim of racial bullying that was until I got into university. I think being called 'chinky' n all the **** has literally lowered my self esteem. And I've always felt ugly next to my friends whereby guys always choose them over me like being partners or such. i was always the one left with no partner until a friend's would feel sorry for me and be my partner. I've never really had a boyfriend, been asked out or even kissed. I've tried internet dating, but realistically, I findthey don't work out. I have penty of male friends but I always find myself friendzoned or they end up liking my friend's. I am a sociable person but its like guys never ask for my number or show any interest. I'm already 20 so I'm beginning to feel like there's something wrong with the way I look. I'm fashionable, don't wear tonns of makeup, play games, watch anime, smart. I'm currently studying a respectable degree, I drink n all that but I've literally got nothing and its making me feel like ill forever be alone.
    There must be a reason why I'm getting no guys. I'm not desperate, its the fact that everyone around me can easily get someone...I've liked a few guys but they just don't return the feelings and I know it can't be forced.
    Are you willing to show us a picture of yourself for us to determine what your problem is, appearance wise? I'm not trying to be shallow, but initial attraction is important to most guys.
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    (Original post by AnharM)
    Are you willing to show us a picture of yourself for us to determine what your problem is, appearance wise? I'm not trying to be shallow, but initial attraction is important to most guys.
    i asked her before and she is not willing too, shes probably butters.
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    (Original post by slade p)
    i asked her before and she is not willing too, shes probably butters.
    Sad truth breh
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    England is very racist
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    (Original post by honeyandlemon)
    England is very racist
    Lol, so is parts of America and many other countries. Why single out and generalise England? :P
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    (Original post by Aroubiola)
    The Uk is the most racist country in the world.
    In the UK, a racist incident is getting called a paki and getting beaten up.

    There are probably a hundred countries in the world where a racist incident is a whole village getting wiped out.

    The UK is probably one of the least racist countries in the world.
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    Sorry, late reply - been in Glasgow watching white girls play sport.

    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    You can see the Sydney Opera House if you went to Sydney since there is only of it. You can't exactly go somewhere that will guarantee you will see a white girl with an Oriental boyfriend.
    But they do exist - you just deny that they do. Ergo, it's the same as the Sydney Opera House.

    Do you truly believe that these people do not actually exist? As in there are no white girls that have Asian male partners? Not a single one?

    What would you accept as proof to the contrary?
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    (Original post by Clip)
    What would you accept as proof to the contrary?
    Easy, seeing such a couple with my own eyes in person.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    In honest opinion, I'm not here fishing for compliments or sympathy, this is a genuine problem that I'm having and some genuine advice would reassure me.
    I'm a British born Chinese girl, 5'3 and I wouldn't say I was ugly but I'm definitely not pretty - just below average.
    So having been living in the UK for all my life, I've always been a victim of racial bullying that was until I got into university. I think being called 'chinky' n all the **** has literally lowered my self esteem. And I've always felt ugly next to my friends whereby guys always choose them over me like being partners or such. i was always the one left with no partner until a friend's would feel sorry for me and be my partner. I've never really had a boyfriend, been asked out or even kissed. I've tried internet dating, but realistically, I findthey don't work out. I have penty of male friends but I always find myself friendzoned or they end up liking my friend's. I am a sociable person but its like guys never ask for my number or show any interest. I'm already 20 so I'm beginning to feel like there's something wrong with the way I look. I'm fashionable, don't wear tonns of makeup, play games, watch anime, smart. I'm currently studying a respectable degree, I drink n all that but I've literally got nothing and its making me feel like ill forever be alone.
    There must be a reason why I'm getting no guys. I'm not desperate, its the fact that everyone around me can easily get someone...I've liked a few guys but they just don't return the feelings and I know it can't be forced.
    What are you studying? Are you studying at a good uni? Is the uni in London? Because London, Manchester and other big cities are places where you can easily meet people. I find surprising that no one has asked you out. Not to sound like a troll but a pic would help here. Because you know, love at first sight, is the drive of male mating dynamics.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    Easy, seeing such a couple with my own eyes in person.
    Ok, but if you show me a picture of the Sydney Opera House, I won't deny that it exists.

    So if you see a photo of a white girl with an Asian husband/boyfriend - why is that not good enough for you?
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    Have yet to come across a single white girl who fancies or dates an Oriental guy in real life.

    Like I said in another thread, come up with a routine that would help me attract a white girl and I will give you £440.
    This, this right here encapsulates all your problems and is testimony to your failure in life.

    Firstly, regardless of what you might think - it's undeniable that you are blaming all white girls for not wanting to go out with you, and you are also attributing to their ethnicity (and yours).

    Secondly, your attitude toward women is laughable. You seem to have this notion that there is a book you can buy, or a website you can visit, or there is some advice that someone can give you - and all of a sudden you'll be up to your nuts in Charlize Theron's guts.

    Here's the thing - if you display any of these attitudes in real life, you are going to be extremely unattractive to anyone. You have a hankering for these ethereal beauties - but you have absolutely nothing to offer them. You're not interesting, you have messed up ideas about life and you're a borderline racist. Worst of all, you support Arsenal football club.
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    (Original post by Clip)
    Ok, but if you show me a picture of the Sydney Opera House, I won't deny that it exists.

    So if you see a photo of a white girl with an Asian husband/boyfriend - why is that not good enough for you?
    The Sydney Opera House is a man made construction with no feelings or sexual attracting to anything else. Humans are not. Also just because two people of the opposite sex are in a picture together, does not mean they are dating.


    (Original post by Clip)
    This, this right here encapsulates all your problems and is testimony to your failure in life.

    Firstly, regardless of what you might think - it's undeniable that you are blaming all white girls for not wanting to go out with you, and you are also attributing to their ethnicity (and yours).

    Secondly, your attitude toward women is laughable. You seem to have this notion that there is a book you can buy, or a website you can visit, or there is some advice that someone can give you - and all of a sudden you'll be up to your nuts in Charlize Theron's guts.

    Here's the thing - if you display any of these attitudes in real life, you are going to be extremely unattractive to anyone. You have a hankering for these ethereal beauties - but you have absolutely nothing to offer them. You're not interesting, you have messed up ideas about life and you're a borderline racist. Worst of all, you support Arsenal football club.
    Firstly, I'm not blaming them since they can't help what they are attracted to.

    Secondly people ask for advice on how to attract the opposite sex all the time. There may not be a sure-proof method, but there are things that would help more often than not. But if there is no physical attraction then it is useless.

    Lastly, I don't display how I feel about this subject in real life. Apart from some close friends, people assume I am attracted to girls of all races and are shocked if I were to tell them my actual preference. Also, I don't see how supporting a certain football club makes any difference when attracting someone.
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    (Original post by Mr Smurf)
    The Sydney Opera House is a man made construction with no feelings or sexual attracting to anything else. Humans are not. Also just because two people of the opposite sex are in a picture together, does not mean they are dating.
    So you're serious? You actually deny that there are any white girls anywhere (and let's face it there are a lot of them) that have "Oriental" boyfriends or husbands?

    It strikes me that the only possible evidence you would accept is for your dream woman to show up at your door tomorrow morning.




    Firstly, I'm not blaming them since they can't help what they are attracted to.
    Yes, you are. You're making something up and then attributing to all white women on the basis that they're not attracted to you.


    Secondly people ask for advice on how to attract the opposite sex all the time. There may not be a sure-proof method, but there are things that would help more often than not. But if there is no physical attraction then it is useless.
    Most people understand that it's just general advice - they don't ask for surefire guarantees - which you are effectively asking for if you are willing to pay.


    Lastly, I don't display how I feel about this subject in real life. Apart from some close friends, people assume I am attracted to girls of all races and are shocked if I were to tell them my actual preference.
    Normally, I wouldn't class this as a fetish, as that implies the use of some object for gratification - but in your case - this is what it is. You can only get off on the physical aspect of a very pretty white girl. Good luck to you, but I think you're in for a lifetime of disappointment and pornography.
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    (Original post by Zenomorph)
    if you love us so much you would know - we are NOT Asians, We are Orientals

    Women shi dong fang ren bu shi yindu !!! Wo pai pai pai !!!
    I have never heard that word used among any of my asian friends.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    In honest opinion, I'm not here fishing for compliments or sympathy, this is a genuine problem that I'm having and some genuine advice would reassure me.
    I'm a British born Chinese girl, 5'3 and I wouldn't say I was ugly but I'm definitely not pretty - just below average.
    So having been living in the UK for all my life, I've always been a victim of racial bullying that was until I got into university. I think being called 'chinky' n all the **** has literally lowered my self esteem. And I've always felt ugly next to my friends whereby guys always choose them over me like being partners or such. i was always the one left with no partner until a friend's would feel sorry for me and be my partner. I've never really had a boyfriend, been asked out or even kissed. I've tried internet dating, but realistically, I findthey don't work out. I have penty of male friends but I always find myself friendzoned or they end up liking my friend's. I am a sociable person but its like guys never ask for my number or show any interest. I'm already 20 so I'm beginning to feel like there's something wrong with the way I look. I'm fashionable, don't wear tonns of makeup, play games, watch anime, smart. I'm currently studying a respectable degree, I drink n all that but I've literally got nothing and its making me feel like ill forever be alone.
    There must be a reason why I'm getting no guys. I'm not desperate, its the fact that everyone around me can easily get someone...I've liked a few guys but they just don't return the feelings and I know it can't be forced.
    Sorry to hear that. **** judgmental people, they're not worth your or anybody else's time.

    Could you ask your friends for tips? Or be bolder in who you seek out?

    Sometimes you have to step outside of your comfort zone.

    But hang in there, it improves.
 
 
 
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