Hey there! Sign in to join this conversationNew here? Join for free

Muslims: At what age would you like to get married? watch

    • Welcome Squad
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    Welcome Squad
    (Original post by Squishy•)
    what do u mean? 28 is too old to get married? lol are u crazy?
    I would love to get married at 28, but its cultural thingy, past the age of 26-27, no mother wants you for his son where they can find 20-21 year old.

    Also people will automatically assume you either bad person or have bad personality, that's why not married yet.
    Offline

    10
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Squishy•)
    Which university are you at and what year?
    I get the falling into zina bit but you've got to compromise between that and being able to have freedom of travelling or just paying for yourself really.
    Would like to say but wouldn't want any risk of my ID being discovered (not that I've said/done anything bad) haha.

    And yeah but I think it is more of a priority on getting married younger because that's the advice of our Prophet (peace and prayers upon him) and it's what his companions did.

    If you look at the majority of muslims nowadays, freemixing has been made halal amongst them so they could mix with the opposite gender. It should be easier to get married so that the men and women can chill with their partners rather than big parties in a shisha bar, lol. In my opinion (I could be wrong) but earlier marriages seem like a better proposal than widespread zina.
    Offline

    10
    ReputationRep:
    Sisters shouldn't feel obligated to finish uni and get a job before marriage. You guys have no obligation to provide for your husband and/or kids. It's us dudes that gotta earn a decent salary before approaching your parents!
    Spoiler:
    Show
    Before I get beaten up on this thread, I ain't saying forget your education and whatnot. Feel free to pursue an education (do whatever halal job/degree) but don't let that stop you from getting married.
    Offline

    17
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Squishy•)
    Even in university? I was thinking about people who get married in university and never actually get to spend money just on themselves and go where ever they want with no responsibilities. What do u think about it
    Yeah that would probably be a good time, since it's easy to fall into a haram relationship there.
    I don't see those as bad things.
    Marriage doesn't restrict you that much, it depends on the person you get married to.
    (Original post by Butternuts96)
    Sisters shouldn't feel obligated to finish uni and get a job before marriage. You guys have no obligation to provide for your husband and/or kids. It's us dudes that gotta earn a decent salary before approaching your parents!
    Spoiler:
    Show
    Before I get beaten up on this thread, I ain't saying forget your education and whatnot. Feel free to pursue an education (do whatever halal job/degree) but don't let that stop you from getting married.
    Would you prefer your wife to stay at home or work?

    Posted from TSR Mobile
    Offline

    21
    ReputationRep:
    Male:Probably by 2025 but all depends on life. I'll be 25/26 then so all good. And if not then at least by 30.

    I see why the females on hear are saying that they would want to get married 24-28 because it's easier to have kids as you have a professional job and you still get payed for maternity leave and it works out pretty well.
    • #8
    #8

    Why everyone has an age in which they would like to get married ?
    I don't get it .. I mean when the time has come it comes and that's all, what if you are not even alive at the age you wanna get married ?

    Of course I'm a female, and the best thing I can say about it for myself is inchAllah
    Offline

    15
    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Why everyone has an age in which they would like to get married ?
    I don't get it .. I mean when the time has come it comes and that's all, what if you are not even alive at the age you wanna get married ?

    Of course I'm a female, and the best thing I can say about it for myself is inchAllah
    Anon fail .. FrenchUnicorn here I didn't wanted to be anon
    Offline

    18
    Around 26-28
    Offline

    13
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by HAnwar)

    Would you prefer your wife to stay at home or work?

    Posted from TSR Mobile
    After the first child no, but before that if she wanted to I wouldn't mind.

    Posted from TSR Mobile
    Offline

    18
    ReputationRep:
    I prefered to get married at around 25-26. Maybe I will, maybe not. Im 21, failing my degree, no job and havent got a driving licence yet. Need to sort out my life.
    Offline

    17
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by s_ahmed2)
    After the first child no, but before that if she wanted to I wouldn't mind.

    Posted from TSR Mobile
    I agree.
    But I don't think a woman has to work if her husband is already doing so, unless her husband would like her to contribute or is struggling financially.
    Offline

    13
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by HAnwar)
    I agree.
    But I don't think a woman has to work if her husband is already doing so, unless her husband would like her to contribute or is struggling financially.
    Yep.

    Posted from TSR Mobile
    Offline

    10
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by LostGirlOnTheRun)
    Aww you think that *cough cough* is not a secret-maybe in your reply to this you'll let everyone know what *cough cough* means eh? Lol jk x
    Ayaz, you better make me!!!
    • #10
    #10

    Im 24 atm but id say before 30 inshallah
    Offline

    3
    ReputationRep:
    110
    Offline

    10
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by HAnwar)
    I agree.
    But I don't think a woman has to work if her husband is already doing so, unless her husband would like her to contribute or is struggling financially.
    That is really sweet
    Offline

    11
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Deliciously)
    too late. best age for a girl is 21.
    Posted from TSR Mobile
    InshaAllah if I was to get married at 21 I wouldn't mind but I would prefer 23
    Offline

    17
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by LostGirlOnTheRun)
    That is really sweet
    Offline

    13
    ReputationRep:
    22/23
    • #11
    #11

    23-25 , female
 
 
 
Reply
Submit reply
TSR Support Team

We have a brilliant team of more than 60 Support Team members looking after discussions on The Student Room, helping to make it a fun, safe and useful place to hang out.

Updated: February 19, 2018
Poll
Do you agree with the PM's proposal to cut tuition fees for some courses?

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Write a reply...
Reply
Hide
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.