What do girls nowadays look for in a guy?

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    (Original post by Rakas21)
    No doubt. We're on a forum where some men are creating threads saying they are 20 year old virgins.

    I've been both fortunate and unfortunate (though all my fault) enough to have gone from the nerdy virgin to basically a player (not out of malice, i simply had no desire for a relationship until my early twenties) to fat guy who gets laid once in a blue moon and all in a decade or so. Hence i have developed a good eye for what women say they want and what they forget to add.
    I know...

    You're partly right. I've also seen that the girls here tend to avoid the wallet thing, which is definitely a sensitive topic, but one worth discussing, in my opinion. It doesn't really matter when we're talking about hook ups and **** like this, but let's face it - how many girls (women?) would actually date a man without a penny to his name who's not even willing to get a job?

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    (Original post by Viva Emptiness)
    No, no, no, they obviously just know the hidden secret that all we want is abs, a large D and 6ft+, and not the multitude of other things actual women have listed above.

    They probably just sound bitter about it because they don't have any of those things either.
    (Original post by Viva Emptiness)
    No, no, no, they obviously just know the hidden secret that all we want is abs, a large D and 6ft+, and not the multitude of other things actual women have listed above.

    They probably just sound bitter about it because they don't have any of those things either.
    Exactly. Maybe some of them are joking, but if you think a girl refused to go out with you because you don't have abs, you've got serious problems.
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    I know...

    You're partly right. I've also seen that the girls here tend to avoid the wallet thing, which is definitely a sensitive topic, but one worth discussing, in my opinion. It doesn't really matter when we're talking about hook ups and **** like this, but let's face it - how many girls (women?) would actually date a man without a penny to his name who's not even willing to get a job?

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    Gold digger detected.

    Get her boys!!

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    (Original post by RainbowMan)
    Gold digger detected.

    Get her boys!!

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    I'm not a gold digger lol
    I just stated the truth...
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    I'm not a gold digger lol
    I just stated the truth...
    The gold digging truth.

    Don't worry, my warriors will take care of you soon.
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    (Original post by RainbowMan)
    The gold digging truth.

    Don't worry, my warriors will take care of you soon.
    I doubt that. But seriously, a woman usually expects her partner to be on the same level as her, that's all I'm saying
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    I doubt that. But seriously, a woman usually expects her partner to be on the same level as her, that's all I'm saying
    You w0t m8?

    I don't actually care, I never had a problem with girls thinking I'm not "rich enough" for them. Didn't know money was such an issue until I read about it on here.
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    (Original post by RainbowMan)
    You w0t m8?

    I don't actually care, I never had a problem with girls thinking I'm not "rich enough" for them. Didn't know money was such an issue until I read about it on here.
    It's not actually money that's the problem. It's what it says about a person. Like, I know you can be super hardworking and **** and still be poor, but a guy that sits on his ass all ****ing day, complains about his situation and doesn't wanna get a job isn't attractive at all.

    See what I'm talking about?
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    It's not actually money that's the problem. It's what it says about a person. Like, I know you can be super hardworking and **** and still be poor, but a guy that sits on his ass all ****ing day, complains about his situation and doesn't wanna get a job isn't attractive at all.

    See what I'm talking about?
    Your original post was about money tho. Now this doesn't sound like it's about money. It could be about any problem.

    Also, ouch.
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    (Original post by RainbowMan)
    Your original post was about money tho. Now this doesn't sound like it's about money. It could be about any problem.

    Also, ouch.
    Well ****, I should've kept my mouth shut. :rofl: Anyway, it's not like being with someone rich makes you rich too.

    Why are you betraying me tho?
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    Personally I think appearances are important initially 🤔 There are certain attributes I prefer over others but they aren't deal breakers, I'm not looking to date supermodels 😂. As a tall girl, 5ft10, I do look at height a lot as I find it weird to date shorter guys.
    Ultimately for lasting relationships is to share a few common interests but also have a few uncommon interests to talk about, not awkward and not a knob head 😂
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    Well ****, I should've kept my mouth shut. :rofl: Anyway, it's not like being with someone rich makes you rich too.

    Why are you betraying me tho?
    I'll never betray you babez :smug:

    But I'm a loyal follower of Foo. Wimminz r secondary to us neomasculinist neomeninists (I forgot the exact name. Forgive me oh Lord).
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    (Original post by RainbowMan)
    I'll never betray you babez :smug:

    But I'm a loyal follower of Foo. Wimminz r secondary to us neomasculinist neomeninists (I forgot the exact name. Forgive me oh Lord).
    :rofl:

    Good to know, I was starting to doubt your intentions. :rofl:

    Ur sinning. He'll want to hear your Confession. :rofl:
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    Wasn't talking about you, but about some of the guys here speaking on behalf of girls
    Me neither btw... posted a gif that I hoped would get me some reps but nobody really noticed it :rofl:
    Just making sure

    :eek: You rep whore :rofl: I never saw the gif tbh, people probably replied to the thread too quickly and it got buried :lol:
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    (Original post by WoodyMKC)
    Just making sure

    :eek: You rep whore :rofl: I never saw the gif tbh, people probably replied to the thread too quickly and it got buried :lol:
    :rofl: What can I do, I wanna get my 8th gem lol
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    Lets rephrase this question - "What do guys nowadays look for in a girl"
    Answer: a v hole.
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    Seriously though, girls are weak and delicate souls who just want affection and children no matter how many times you cheat on them X
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    Knowing more than one language is a bonus, for me anyway.
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    (Original post by Rhaenys10)
    :rofl: What can I do, I wanna get my 8th gem lol
    Gotta get in on the first page and post some funny **** :lol: You can do it

    I had something clown-related happen to me tonight, decided to make a thread about it if you're interested http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show...6#post67979208
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    It depends on the girl. You can work only with what you've got, so even if you aren't particularly good-looking, particularly tall, particularly muscular, it's no use dwelling on these facts, as ultimately the consequent feelings of insecurity may well seep out externally and limit your options further. Indeed, I don't think being muscular is a big deal, so while that aspect is changeable, as opposed to height and looks, it's probably not really worth it - honestly it might even be a negative as it could be seen as Narcissistic or overcompensating.. I think the best bet is to just carry yourself with confidence, utilise any sense of humour you have (a sometimes underrated aspect of attraction), and in general be driven/goal-oriented (ambition is of course a key quality), though not to the extent that you take yourself too seriously and ignore leisure of course..
 
 
 
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