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    (Original post by stefano865)
    Not really a turn off.

    Clearly when people reach the 'settling down' stage you need to look for compatible people.

    Bear in mind there are also more and more women who don't want children.

    you're gay?
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    (Original post by Boss_Rhythm)
    So many questions.... Bae= Selena Gomez
    Four children:
    Tyrone (RnB)
    Badman (Scientist)
    Bumbaclot (Member of UN)
    Fam (Footballer)
    Oooo i wasn't expecting Selena!!

    Hmm I see.... they definitely have rather imaginative names. :lol:
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    (Original post by Amellia123)
    Oooo i wasn't expecting Selena!!

    Hmm I see.... they definitely have rather imaginative names. :lol:
    Well, selena or ari... They both work for me!

    Or my significant other... (Oh, the tension rising)
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    (Original post by Boss_Rhythm)
    Well, selena or ari... They both work for me!

    Or my significant other... (Oh, the tension rising)
    Lol :lol: when i first saw Ariana Grande i thought she was 12! :eek: Ahh i see

    (tensions sky high!)
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    (Original post by Amellia123)
    Lol :lol: when i first saw Ariana Grande i thought she was 12! :eek: Ahh i see

    (tensions sky high!)
    Wait what? Only sky high??

    I need to aim higher! :stomp:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Someone like what? Some women just don't want 9 months of hell whether it's natural or not. Id maybe like to raise children but there's no way I could handle pregnancy, if it was the man who got pregnant and he wanted them then I'd be all for it but think I'l either have to not have them or adopt.
    Someone like what? Someone like someone who doesn't want children.

    Why take it personal? I understand the negatives but personally, if I found out I'd never have children it'd be one of the worst things that would happen to me in my life. I'd probably just not bother getting married or doing anything.

    Adopting is good if you want never said it wasn't, its not for everyone I know. It's better you have a child that you want than being pressured into it. Don't take it personally.
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    (Original post by Boss_Rhythm)
    Wait what? Only sky high??

    I need to aim higher! :stomp:
    Higher than sky high?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?! Ummmm...... as high as the most outer reaches of space?
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    (Original post by Nile.)
    you're gay?

    No. Just saying 'turn off' wasn't the right choice of words.

    I'm worried you are becoming slightly obsessed with me.
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    (Original post by Nile.)
    you're gay?

    Would it matter if I was?
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    What if the guy couldn't have children? like his balls fell off or something
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    It would be deal breaker for me, as i definitely want children. Preferably my own, but adoptive ones would be okay too.
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    I wouldn't get with a man who didn't want kids
    How about a man who didn't want to bring more children into the world on moral grounds, was impotent, but was happy to adopt? :beard:
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    I wouldn't want to date a girl who wanted kids in the next 5 years of her life - that is creepy. it's like listening to somebody saying they're going to commit suicide soon.
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    Its not a turn off provided he can be a good father. Its just that I wouldn't want to have children so quick into the relationship. My ideal time for having children would about 5 years into the relationship but only if we get on well together and are responsible enough for bringing up kids. I'm personally not a big fan of kids, so if my man likes kids, that'd actually be relief a and attractive. And if not, I wouldn't be bothered about it either.
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    How about a man who didn't want to bring more children into the world on moral grounds, was impotent, but was happy to adopt? :beard:
    Then I too,would be happy to adopt or consider the option of a sperm donor...
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Then I too, would be happy to adopt or consider the option of a sperm donor...
    That'd be gracious of you, knowing what I do of your sentiments on the subject. Assume you'd strongly prefer to be the biological mother of your children, at least (in spite of the disruption of pregnancy/trauma of childbirth) :holmes:
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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    That'd be gracious of you, knowing what I do of your sentiments on the subject. Assume you'd strongly prefer to be the biological mother of your children, at least (in spite of the disruption of pregnancy/trauma of childbirth) :holmes:
    Most definitely. I know childbirth/pregnancy is a delicate process but it's unique and I want to experience it
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    Most definitely. I know childbirth/pregnancy is a delicate process but it's unique and I want to experience it
    Hats off to you but you cray cray, girl! :top2:

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    (Original post by Foo.mp3)
    Hats off to you but you cray cray, girl! :top2:

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    I'm looking forward to it,with great happiness :innocent:
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    (Original post by queen-bee)
    I'm looking forward to it,with great happiness :innocent:
    Charming. May God bless you with a fine young family, my child
 
 
 
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