Have you found the one person you want to spend forever with?

Reply 140

Anonymous #5

Yup, too bad she's not interested in me :bebored:

Reply 141

silverbolt

19

Forever is a damn long time.

We've only been together just over three weeks so I'm sure as hell not making those kind of predictions

Reply 142

Lucarious30

17

Preferably myself, right?

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Anonymous #6

I'm too young to say a definite yes, but I think if I had to stay with my boyfriend forever due to some unforeseen circumstance, I'd be pretty damn happy. I can't say 100% yes because we're young and haven't tested different issues and situations yet.

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BlueSheep32

11

There was a time when I thought I had, but I eventually realised that even though I loved and cared about him I was too unhappy in the relationship to stay in it forever and we weren't right for each other, so we broke up two months ago. I like to think that there is a person out there who'll be my 'one', but I'm also of the opinion that someone can be the 'one' for a particular time in your life and not necessarily for all of it. For now I'm content to be on my own untless someone special comes along.

Reply 145

Gatlema

9

Original post by abc:)

Case against: If you stay with someone who is like that, who you love but don't instantly know they are the one, maybe you will have a happy life with them, but miss out on an even happier life with someone who you might have really thought 'wow you are the one' about.

My neighbours broke up for this reason, because she was thinking 'what if?'.

A year later, they realised they missed each other and were happier together, 'warts and all' than they would be with the mythical tall dark handsome stranger, and got back together again. I think with the wondering if you're missing out, you don't always realise what you already have until you've lost it.

Reply 146

abc:)

22

Original post by Gatlema

My neighbours broke up for this reason, because she was thinking 'what if?'.

A year later, they realised they missed each other and were happier together, 'warts and all' than they would be with the mythical tall dark handsome stranger, and got back together again. I think with the wondering if you're missing out, you don't always realise what you already have until you've lost it.

Very interesting perspective :smile:

Reply 147

Cremated_Spatula

15

I'm not sure I can stomach spending forever with myself let alone someone else.

Yes

maybe

Spoiler

Reply 150

Clostace

3

I certainly feel like I have, but I guess you never know until "forever" is over. I still hold the belief there is someone for everyone, no matter how critical and scientific people are. I still believe in love.