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    Nope! I like kids, but other people's! They are funny with their innocent little comments, and they can be cute. But THEN you get the , whining, screaming, snotty noses tantrums and nappy changing! That's when I hand them back haha!

    I will admit, I am just a bit too selfish to want kids, I would like to have holidays, travel, a nice car, nice flat and not dedicate my entire life to someone as dependent as a child. That's just me being honest!
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    (Original post by im so academic)
    It's just so easy for the guy, isn't it? You just do your shagging and continue your career...
    the way nature intended
    **** that, I'd rather die alone as opposed to putting my career on hold
    Im guessing you live to work rather than working to live
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    Absolutely, I have no desire whatsoever for children and never have done. Luckily I have 2 siblings, so hopefully one of those will provide grandchildren for my mum and dad, and take the pressure off me!
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    All the female medical students after the Human Development module we just had. :p:
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    Nice to know I'm not the only one, people generally think that I'm either a) weird or b) that it's "just a phase" and I'll change my mind, so it's nice to see others feel the same way.

    I don't mind kids and I can have fun playing with other people's for an hour or two (good job really considering I'm working as an au pair atm! :p:) but babies freak me out, giving birth would be HORRIBLE and, above all, I'm far too selfish. Children take over your life, and I would always want to be able to put myself and my career first, which wouldn't be fair on them :no: I have no interest in getting married and I'm not that bothered about relationships, so the keeping a man side of it doesn't really bother me either, although I guess if I met someone special it might be an issue.
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      (Original post by Altruistic1)
      Feminism is nice but you're missing the bigger picture.

      You're a girl. Your genes have developed (through your ancestry line) to put you in a better position than a man to look after your child in the environment you're in. The breast milk (which only mothers produce) is scientifically-proven to be much better for a child than bottled milk. And men? I've never seen a man lactate himself for a baby... hopefully I never will, lol.

      Some men do look after the child while their women work... but it's really selling the baby short.. and you'd only be looking after the baby for a couple of years anyway until school/nursery starts, it's not a massive deal.
      Not a massive deal? :facepalm2: Yeah, it's so easy to "put your career on hold".

      No way. I'd rather not get pregnant/married in the first place if this is the life you expect me to live.
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        (Original post by Lewroll)
        Im guessing you live to work rather than working to live
        Yeah, and what's wrong with that?
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          (Original post by xmarilynx)
          Nice to know I'm not the only one, people generally think that I'm either a) weird or b) that it's "just a phase" and I'll change my mind, so it's nice to see others feel the same way.

          I don't mind kids and I can have fun playing with other people's for an hour or two (good job really considering I'm working as an au pair atm! :p:) but babies freak me out, giving birth would be HORRIBLE and, above all, I'm far too selfish. Children take over your life, and I would always want to be able to put myself and my career first, which wouldn't be fair on them :no: I have no interest in getting married and I'm not that bothered about relationships, so the keeping a man side of it doesn't really bother me either, although I guess if I met someone special it might be an issue.
          Do what you want to do, not what your man instructs you do to. If he does, he isn't "special". A special man would respect your wishes.
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          (Original post by im so academic)
          Yeah, and what's wrong with that?
          Theres nothing wrong with it
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          (Original post by Lewroll)

          Im guessing you live to work rather than working to live
          Totally.
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          I think everyone will just have to wait and see if the biological clock kicks in and minds are changed
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          I get the feeling that most of the females saying they don't want kids will eventually give in once they're approaching 40 and their family and friends are asking them questions. I doubt they're mentally strong enough to give a straight-up answer once the questions start, they'll probably go ahead and do it just to fit in.
         
         
         
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