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Everyone hates ugly people - worse than racism/sexism/homophobia etc

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But if you're "ugly" but super confident, it is sure to definitely blind people of your looks
Original post by Luffy.
I said I dont have friends.

Anyway I am not being negative. I am just been real and I like my life. I mean I am not sad or something because I am ugly or because a girl have never spoke to me. I mean I am fine with that and grateful about it. I am just explaining why girls dont like ugly guys and the look is a lot more important than personality and attitude.
There are lots of things I am grateful about my life. For example I passed in my GCSE and I have good parents that loves me and my health is not bad except I always have a cold.
And I have a good plane for my future. The plane is to pass A level and get a degree and get a good job and get a wife through arrange marriage.


Plan. It's plan, not plane.

Ok good luck with your plan.
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Original post by platorepublic
Plan. It's plan, not plane.

Ok good luck with your plan.


Thanks for correcting my English and thanks.
Original post by Luffy.
Thanks for correcting my English and thanks.


No problem, anytime.
Tell me about it. I'm ugly and people sometimes treat me like I'm less than a human being for it.

In the end you just have to learn to live with it and face the fact that we weren't all born to be attractive. I still have friends and people who care about me, you learn to focus on more important things. It'll always be an issue but at the end of the day I realise there's more to life. And people who treat me badly because of my looks aren't really worth a dime anyway and should just go **** themselves.
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Reply 165
Original post by Sheldor
What nice things do you do for them?
Yes, I know you are quiet and don't laugh. That just means you may come off as somewhat reserved and serious. Girls may look away when they see you because you look serious/are subconsciously frowning. Out of curiosity-why do you think you can't/don't make/have friends?


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I buy food from canteen and distribute to everyone in the class including girls and boys but a girl have never say even thanks but some times boys will say thanks.
I give presents to every one including girls and boys in special days and my birthday but a girl have never say even thanks.
I have given presents to others in there birthdays including girls but a girl have never said even thanks.
When I was in primary, I am quiet good in studies so I do homework to others sometimes including for girls, I mean a girl would never ask me directly to do there homework, I mean they will use a guy to ask me but I am the one who do the homework so I should atleast deserve a thanks but it never happened.
Reply 166
Original post by That Feel
I actually think short men get it a lot worse, particularly from females

I mean damn, this has feel bad for manlets



"you short men must stop complaining about your friendzone. It's automatic. Go complain to your gene pool."

"short men they have anger isssues & try to beat women #fact"

"short guys > please dont talk to me until you grow"

"short men have no purpose in life LMAO"

"short guys are irrelevant"

"men under 5'5 are called bitches"


Very True
Original post by Luffy.
I buy food from canteen and distribute to everyone in the class including girls and boys but a girl have never say even thanks but some times boys will say thanks.
I give presents to every one including girls and boys in special days and my birthday but a girl have never say even thanks.
I have given presents to others in there birthdays including girls but a girl have never said even thanks.
When I was in primary, I am quiet good in studies so I do homework to others sometimes including for girls, I mean a girl would never ask me directly to do there homework, I mean they will use a guy to ask me but I am the one who do the homework so I should atleast deserve a thanks but it never happened.


I think you may be acting a bit too doormat-y. It's lovely that you do so much nice stuff, but unfortunately that can easily be taken forgranted and not acknowledged. Maybe you could try talking/approaching girls more often? If you just quietly do their work/give them stuff they may not notice you as much. If you were too, say, talk to them after giving them a present ("Happy Birthday! What did you get from your family?") then that would certainly be a start towards them noticing you. If you never approach people/start talking too them then you will most certainly never get people approaching you. Since you already have a reputation/are known for being quite and unwilling to socialise, you will have to start talking to people if you want to see a difference.


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Original post by That Feel
I actually think short men get it a lot worse, particularly from females

I mean damn, this has feel bad for manlets



"you short men must stop complaining about your friendzone. It's automatic. Go complain to your gene pool."

"short men they have anger isssues & try to beat women #fact"

"short guys > please dont talk to me until you grow"

"short men have no purpose in life LMAO"

"short guys are irrelevant"

"men under 5'5 are called bitches"


That's a minority of women. Most women don't care. To be honest, you'll get people hating on every type of person, height, age, race, attractiveness, etc.


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Reply 169
Original post by Sheldor
I think you may be acting a bit too doormat-y. It's lovely that you do so much nice stuff, but unfortunately that can easily be taken forgranted and not acknowledged. Maybe you could try talking/approaching girls more often? If you just quietly do their work/give them stuff they may not notice you as much. If you were too, say, talk to them after giving them a present ("Happy Birthday! What did you get from your family?") then that would certainly be a start towards them noticing you. If you never approach people/start talking too them then you will most certainly never get people approaching you. Since you already have a reputation/are known for being quite and unwilling to socialise, you will have to start talking to people if you want to see a difference.


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I am not gonna talk to a girl first before they says at-least one word to me. I mean they start conversation with hot guys all the time so I need at-least one word. I mean I am a quiet guy and I never say anything to any one unless they says something to me first. I mean guys says thank you and few other things to me so why cant one female in the world do the same to me. If they cant than why should I start talking to them. I mean I have another, much easier option which is to get an arrange marriage.
Reply 170
As someone who is really good looking, I can tell you the OP is correct. Ugly people are shunned.

That being said, being good looking can work against you as well. Eg i'm a little shy, and a lot of people mistake this for arrogance which they find off putting (i've been told this by someone before - "you think you're too good looking to go out with me". *tears*.)

But generally being good looking is almost entirely pros, rather than cons if you learn how to utilise it's benefits (i'm getting there).
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Original post by Luffy.
I am not gonna talk to a girl first before they says at-least one word to me. I mean they start conversation with hot guys all the time so I need at-least one word. I mean I am a quiet guy and I never say anything to any one unless they says something to me first. I mean guys says thank you and few other things to me so why cant one female in the world do the same to me. If they cant than why should I start talking to them. I mean I have another, much easier option which is to get an arrange marriage.


I actually give up now. How any times have I mentioned approachability and friendliness (why those girls approach those guys in the first place) and you've ignored me because you're so set in your ways?(You could look like Zac Efron and everyone would still act the same towards you because of your attitude and demeanour.)

I've told you what to do if you want to change it, and what you're doing to cause the current situation. If you don't want to change, fine-just stop complaining about it and making people think you're trolling.
Also, I wouldn't count so much on arranged marriage. If all you want a wife for is to please your parents and for sex in which she will be doing all the work, it's unlikely it would last long.(People want to be wanted for who they are, not what organs they posess.)


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Reply 172
Original post by Sheldor
I actually give up now. How any times have I mentioned approachability and friendliness (why those girls approach those guys in the first place) and you've ignored me because you're so set in your ways?(You could look like Zac Efron and everyone would still act the same towards you because of your attitude and demeanour.)

I've told you what to do if you want to change it, and what you're doing to cause the current situation. If you don't want to change, fine-just stop complaining about it and making people think you're trolling.
Also, I wouldn't count so much on arranged marriage. If all you want a wife for is to please your parents and for sex in which she will be doing all the work, it's unlikely it would last long.(People want to be wanted for who they are, not what organs they posess.)


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Girls approach to those guys because they are handsome.
I ignored your answers because its not believable and from my experience I know its not true.
I don't want to change my good personality and attitude. I know girls like bad boy type but I am not gonna be a bad boy. I mean if there is two equally attractive guys and if one is a good boy and if the other is a bad boy than girls will pick the bad boy.
As I said before I will do anything she asks me to do with a smile.
Original post by Luffy.
Girls approach to those guys because they are handsome.
I ignored your answers because its not believable and from my experience I know its not true.
I don't want to change my good personality and attitude. I know girls like bad boy type but I am not gonna be a bad boy. I mean if there is two equally attractive guys and if one is a good boy and if the other is a bad boy than girls will pick the bad boy.
As I said before I will do anything she asks me to do with a smile.


TBH if both guys were equally attractive, the guy with the better personality wins my heart.
B.T.W most girls don't want a bad boy who cheats and plays with them. All us girls ask for is a nice guy who isn't a pussy or clingy. Is that to much to ask?

Luffy it get's better when you get out into the real world. I mean ugly people find someone - yes even the ugly ugly ones, but you have to keep an open mindset. What kind of girls do you go for?
Also I have this feeling that you might have an accent. Do you? and how do you dress? How do you style your hair?
Reply 174
Original post by Sammi_K?
TBH if both guys were equally attractive, the guy with the better personality wins my heart.
B.T.W most girls don't want a bad boy who cheats and plays with them. All us girls ask for is a nice guy who isn't a pussy or clingy. Is that to much to ask?

Luffy it get's better when you get out into the real world. I mean ugly people find someone - yes even the ugly ugly ones, but you have to keep an open mindset. What kind of girls do you go for?
Also I have this feeling that you might have an accent. Do you? and how do you dress? How do you style your hair?


Doesn't seems like that way from what I have seen so far.
I have seen two very ugly guys and none have found a girl and one have died alone. And the other one is pretty old now.
I haven't gone after any type of a girl and I am not gonna do that if a girl haven't speak to me first. I mean I have a plan for my life and am working for that plan.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9KbitCB9P4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAfhn1cFVB4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2GARY_w99U

My accent is something like those but with a broken English.
Original post by Luffy.
Doesn't seems like that way from what I have seen so far.
I have seen two very ugly guys and none have found a girl and one have died alone. And the other one is pretty old now.
I haven't gone after any type of a girl and I am not gonna do that if a girl haven't speak to me first. I mean I have a plan for my life and am working for that plan.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m9KbitCB9P4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QAfhn1cFVB4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p2GARY_w99U

My accent is something like those but with a broken English.


Are you happy with that plan? Or are you settling with that plan? What if that plan fails, what will you do then?

Don't give up hope. Things do get better. And trust me ugly people do get married. I watch Say Yes to the Dress - a reality television show about brides-to-be picking out their dresses, and they show pics of their husbands - and Four Weddings which is also a reality show and it shows peoples wedding and reception and stuff. You see some unattractive faces and bodies in their, but people still find their one and are happy. If they can find someone, then don't tell me you can't.
lets admit looks matter and our world is so bloody cruel in that some are born 'ugly'

i don't even want to 'live' in a cruel planet anymore

this doesn't mean i want death

i am sick and tired of the cruetly.

sick and tired.
Reply 177
Original post by Sammi_K?
Are you happy with that plan? Or are you settling with that plan? What if that plan fails, what will you do then?

Don't give up hope. Things do get better. And trust me ugly people do get married. I watch Say Yes to the Dress - a reality television show about brides-to-be picking out their dresses, and they show pics of their husbands - and Four Weddings which is also a reality show and it shows peoples wedding and reception and stuff. You see some unattractive faces and bodies in their, but people still find their one and are happy. If they can find someone, then don't tell me you can't.


I mean that's a fine plan. I mean better than getting a prostitute right.
If that plan fails than I can make a new plan. Maybe the new plan may not involve girls.
What hope are you talking about. I mean I am fine with my life. A girl haven't spoke to me but I am only 19 and I know most probably they wouldn't but I don't care because I have a plan not only to talk a girl but to lose my virginity too.
Actually you don't know how ugly I am. Will you be with an elephant.
But unlike an elephant, I have a plan and if my plan works than I can speak a girl and have s*x too.
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Original post by Sammi_K?
Are you happy with that plan? Or are you settling with that plan? What if that plan fails, what will you do then?

Don't give up hope. Things do get better. And trust me ugly people do get married. I watch Say Yes to the Dress - a reality television show about brides-to-be picking out their dresses, and they show pics of their husbands - and Four Weddings which is also a reality show and it shows peoples wedding and reception and stuff. You see some unattractive faces and bodies in their, but people still find their one and are happy. If they can find someone, then don't tell me you can't.


flipping hell

you look at humans and go ' you are ugly ' you are 'physically in ferior'

'don't give up you inferior being, even you can find love'

i don't even want to live on this planet anymore

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