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I'm a Muslim guy and I had a relationship with an Atheist girl. AMA. Watch

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    (Original post by GlitterandGold-x)
    How old are you?
    17
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    (Original post by Shafy97)
    Was she fit?
    Ofc... 10/10 snm
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    (Original post by MevMev)
    wait till university it will het a lot easier to date a muslim- but then stay within your limits with greater freedom comes greater responsibility then talk to her parents if u like her
    True say, not too concerned about my love life atm... exams just round the corner
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Ofc... 10/10 snm
    Do you still talk to her?
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    (Original post by Hydeman)
    Do you still talk to her?
    I actually do text her a lot :/ we're still very close
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I actually do text her a lot :/ we're still very close
    Why the :/? :/
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    (Original post by Hydeman)
    Why the :/? :/
    Unfortunately I do still like her and i think only way to kill my feelings for her is to stop talking to her so I'll have to do that soon
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Unfortunately I do still like her and i think only way to kill my feelings for her is to stop talking to her so I'll have to do that soon
    Whats the difference between liking someone and loving someone ?
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    (Original post by KaminiZindagi)
    Whats the difference between liking someone and loving someone ?
    Lust and love... big issue that. Love changes for nobody... If the person was to suddenly become ugly, would you still "love" that person? If the answer is no... it was lust, if its yes then its love. Idk thats my definition of it
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Lust and love... big issue that. Love changes for nobody... If the person was to suddenly become ugly, would you still "love" that person? If the answer is no... it was lust, if its yes then its love. Idk thats my definition of it
    I agree. Love makes blind
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    (Original post by KaminiZindagi)
    I agree. Love makes blind
    Aye, love is not love which alters when it alteration finds #Shakespeare
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    As long as you repented, then I have nothing to say.
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    May Allah accept your repentance bro :hugs:
    Thanks very much
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Unfortunately I do still like her and i think only way to kill my feelings for her is to stop talking to her so I'll have to do that soon
    Do you suspect that she still likes you in the same way?
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    (Original post by Hydeman)
    Do you suspect that she still likes you in the same way?
    Well... shes not making any moves.. I initiated the breakup and we agreed to end it mutually because we both saw the same problems. She did say she missed me and that I always make her smile. Because lets face it.. I'm a pretty funny guy xD. But I don't really want to think about it too much lol
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    Well... shes not making any moves.. I initiated the breakup and we agreed to end it mutually because we both saw the same problems. She did say she missed me and that I always make her smile. Because lets face it.. I'm a pretty funny guy xD. But I don't really want to think about it too much lol
    aww bless u.



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    (Original post by KaminiZindagi)
    Because people act so dodgy about this topic. On one side they are contantly saying " freedom" and "equality" and on the other side they support Sharia

    I am so confused what Muslims actually believe.?? I srs wanna know !

    Kyou says " it is your life.." but then called muslim secularist a non muslim

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    Quick Q

    If a non muslim wants tolive his free will in a muslim country.would you allow it?
    Your confused. And tell me wat country in the world can you live freely? I will make it easier for you.....no where. Laws are in every country.

    A person wanting to murder, can't freely.
    A person wanting to who wants to build their own house without any legislation, can't freely.

    Basically you need to know that freedom dows not exist on how you see it, just freewill but there will be consequences. Also, sharia law...do not talk about it if you don't understand it and why the rules are there. If you logically look at it, best system to prevent crimes etc.

    And no in sharia law does not mean only muslims. Non muslims get to choose to be muslims or not.no true sharia law is implemented now so you don't see the benefit but it ignorant of you to conclude with the negatives.
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    Your confused. And tell me wat country in the world can you live freely? I will make it easier for you.....no where. Laws are in every country.

    A person wanting to murder, can't freely.
    A person wanting to who wants to build their own house without any legislation, can't freely.

    Basically you need to know that freedom dows not exist on how you see it, just freewill but there will be consequences. Also, sharia law...do not talk about it if you don't understand it and why the rules are there. If you logically look at it, best system to prevent crimes etc.

    And no in sharia law does not mean only muslims. Non muslims get to choose to be muslims or not.no true sharia law is implemented now so you don't see the benefit but it ignorant of you to conclude with the negatives.
    freedom is fundamental. we all know when freedom is restricted. it is once u use freedom to hurt other ppl. okay.

    i dont know man. i love islam but sharia is just too much for me

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    (Original post by MevMev)
    fair enough i could personally never do that i wouldn't want to hide things from boy's parents i would want to be 100% open
    yeah that was probably the other issue.. she told her parents and naturally I was invited for dinner with their family etc... Obviously I couldnt tell my parents lol but we broke up before I went. She obviously knew the consequences of me telling my parents though
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    yeah that was probably the other issue.. she told her parents and naturally I was invited for dinner with their family etc... Obviously I couldnt tell my parents lol but we broke up before I went. She obviously knew the consequences of me telling my parents though
    Was it awkward to meet her parents?

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    (Original post by KaminiZindagi)
    Was it awkward to meet her parents?

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    Errr, I only actually met her dad and that was like just a wave when my ex was being dropped off to our date. He smiled but that was about it xD Couldnt care less if he approved or not... xD
 
 
 
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