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Never been in a serious relationship

im 19 but never had a serious relationship or anything close to one. The longest that ive managed with a boyfriend is 1 month. Am i odd? :frown:

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Reply 1

puppy

Vicvac

im 19 but never had a serious relationship or anything close to one. The longest that ive managed with a boyfriend is 1 month. Am i odd? :frown:

In a word, no.

Reply 2

Angel_Cake

Vicvac

im 19 but never had a serious relationship or anything close to one. The longest that ive managed with a boyfriend is 1 month. Am i odd? :frown:

No, not at all. I know loads of 19-year-olds like you. Don't worry about it too much, 19 is a bit young to be getting serious anyway! If you were 39, I'd be worried.

Reply 3

username18215

Nope.

In the Guardian today there was a 27 year old bloke who's in the same position

Moral of the story, don't worry about it.

Reply 4

pink_lucie

no, you are normal , dont panik!

Reply 5

Né Stig

For a girl - yes. They normally want babies before you've had the chance to tell them your gay.

Or is it that the blokes are finishing with you?

Reply 6

ruthiepoothie

Definitely don't worry about it....firstly they are a hassle, secondly they take up way too much time and thirdly....only kidding :smile:

It will happen when the right guy comes along, probably when you least expect it :smile:

You're lovely so someone will snap you up soon i'm sure :smile:

Ruthie xx

Reply 7

Vicvac

walshie

For a girl - yes. They normally want babies before you've had the chance to tell them your gay.

Or is it that the blokes are finishing with you?

ive just never really found anyone that i have really liked and who feels that same way

Reply 8

Vicvac

Thanks i suppose i kind of assumed i would find someone at uni and so many of my friends have been in or are in relationships. x

Reply 9

jd27

Vicvac

im 19 but never had a serious relationship or anything close to one. The longest that ive managed with a boyfriend is 1 month. Am i odd? :frown:

It's better that way, if you believe old wives tales. Apparently, it's the people who have serious, long-term relationships in their teens who take longer to settle down, whilst the rest of us will be ready by the end of our twenties. Not that I believe anything my mum says...

Reply 10

ruthiepoothie

Vicvac

Thanks i suppose i kind of assumed i would find someone at uni and so many of my friends have been in or are in relationships. x

Come september we'll be meeting loads more people, joining loads of new societies :biggrin:

and I'm sure things will just go from there :smile:

I blame psychology myself.....if only there were more boys doing it :frown:

Ruthie xx

Reply 11

Debussy

not at all... i haven't either. or, at least i didn't take them seriously. i'm such a rubbish girlfriend, i get bored really easily...

Reply 12

lskdgjsj

md_red_uk

Nope.

In the Guardian today there was a 27 year old bloke who's in the same position

Moral of the story, don't worry about it.

Singletons make the newspapers now?

Reply 13

jd27

medic_bex

not at all... i haven't either. or, at least i didn't take them seriously. i'm such a rubbish girlfriend, i get bored really easily...

I am shocked - Shocked I say - to hear you say that.. :rolleyes:

Half a mind not to let you win at chess...

nah, you made it. :biggrin:

Course not!!!

jd27

I am shocked - Shocked I say - to hear you say that.. :rolleyes:

Half a mind not to let you win at chess...

nah, you made it. :biggrin:

really, or not? cos i try to explain this to guys at the beginning, and i swear they think i'm joking. then 3 months down the line, i feel really crappy for breaking up with them, but if i've lost interest then what am i supposed to do?

Reply 16

Sami C

not at all... i haven't either. or, at least i didn't take them seriously. i'm such a rubbish girlfriend, i get bored really easily...

*inserts outrageous comment about his masculinity*

No one gets bored with me...my last gf left me because she moved to Spain....well I hope she did........

Reply 17

jd27

medic_bex

That's the problem with the beginnings of relationships - people get too hopeful. One of my exs was bound to leave me for another bloke, the first clue being that she was in the middle of breaking up with another guy when she started going out with me, another being when she texted me about the new guy she was sleeping with on holiday.

That said, if three months is their lot then they should count themselves lucky to have so long :biggrin:

Reply 18