Female orgasms..possible?

To answer your first question, 'why' is it so hard to make a woman cum, my point of view is that there is no actual reason for a woman cumming. It's like men have nipples just because a woman has one but it's no use to us. So women cum just because men do. We are one of the two known animals to have sex for fun (the other are dolphins). Men have to cum in order for the muscle to 'pump' the thick white fluid containing spermatozoa, the process normally known as ejaculation. This point of view is also mentioned in the 'New Scientist' (not sure which issue but it's fairly recent).
Also, another note: The clitoris can also be viewed as an 'undeveloped' penis. The clit and the penis are both made of the same type of tissue. So the best way for a female to cum is clitoral stimulation.

we'll ive been trying for 5 years so im over the 3 year barrier

Actually there is some evidence that the female orgasm and the associated muscle contractions are (or would be if you were trying to make babies!) helpful in moving the sperm up the vagina and towards the cervix, which may also dilate a bit at this point. This is also partly the point of all the lubricating fluid produced.

Actually there is some evidence that the female orgasm and the associated muscle contractions are (or would be if you were trying to make babies!) helpful in moving the sperm up the vagina and towards the cervix, which may also dilate a bit at this point. This is also partly the point of all the lubricating fluid produced.

I've heard of that...so women are designed to come at the same time or (because that's quite difficult) after men? Hmpf

I've done some research into this, and there's no real right answer. Some scientists say it does, some say it don't, but there's no solid evidence of anything.....

we'll ive been trying for 5 years so im over the 3 year barrier

Well, it's not going to hinder it, that's for sure. It's what we got taught in our course anyway. Yes, we did have half a lecture about orgasms.

I've never had a vaginal orgasm. Even with a vibrator i find its better used on the clitoris, but if you want to try a vibrator something like the Jessica rabbit is pretty good,

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Well, it's not going to hinder it, that's for sure. It's what we got taught in our course anyway. Yes, we did have half a lecture about orgasms.

Cool! What do you study? I think I might changes courses now

OK, so if i might ask, whats so good about the rampant rabbit that gives such good/first orgasms?

Actually there is some evidence that the female orgasm and the associated muscle contractions are (or would be if you were trying to make babies!) helpful in moving the sperm up the vagina and towards the cervix, which may also dilate a bit at this point. This is also partly the point of all the lubricating fluid produced.

Imagin what I could achieve if my one vibrated ........ Just a thought....

In life there are lots of things we don't like seeing/hearing/reading/smelling but we can't have everything our own way. People should leave off magiccarpet as well...