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'do you want to go for a drink with me?'

what does it mean if you ask/get asked this question by a member of the opposite sex?

if you are not interested should you go? or say no so not to give them the wrong idea?

if you like someone as frinds and ask this, will they get the wrong idea? :confused:

if you ask someone this and they dont lik you in s fancying way, will they still go?

its very complex all ths dating lark!birds and bees got it right, why cant i???

anyway, any advice folks?
Reply 1
I go out for drinks with friends and potential boyfriends its not necessarily the sign of a date
Reply 2
On his own I'd be suspicious. With other friends it's fine.
Go, but don't dress up, drink beer and don't flirt at all.






Actually, if he was interested that's probably make you irresistible.
Reply 4
It'd be pretty rude to refuse just because you didn't fancy him.

Yeah, go, just don't lead him on. If he takes you turning up the wrong way, well it's his problem...
I frequently get asked if i want to go for a drink by guys / men...but they're just friendly drinks and wwe basically just sit and talk.

having a drink isn't anything special. *shrugs*
besides by drinks...we usually mean the coffee shop type.