i dunno what to do anymore

.. didnt wanna type it all out again so just coppied and pasted from another forum where i posted this heh..

when i started college sept 2002 i met this wonderful girl and we sorta became friends (she knows my best friend as they went to the same school) anyways she's bi which i didnt find out till sometime last year and at the time we met i was kinda questioning myself like hmm am i bi or not?? cos i knew i liked girls anyways i didnt realise right away that i liked her and then didnt see much of her for a while (i think she left college or something not too sure now) anyways she had a bf so for a while i couldnt do anything and they just split up a few weeks ago or so.. im not sure when it was. Not long after this my friend said to her that i like her and she says she likes me too but needs space and im wondering how much space does she need? I wanna make the next move but my friend says i should wait for her to make the next move and i havent actually seen her since i found out she likes me. This was actually the 12th of may but it seems like much longer heh cos when we all plan to go out either she cant go or i cant go :s-smilie:

its really getting to me cos she's really special but i dunno what to do, ive never felt this way about anyone before!
oh and she already knew i like her cos i seem to make it kinda obvious one reason being the way i look at her (my friend calls it the look of love) :frown:

Reply 1

spoonofdeath

I'd just suggest ringing her up and asking her if she wants to meet up casually [if doing anything slightly more suggestive (?) is off the cards] any time soon, cause not seeing them isn't gonna make anything happen.

Reply 2

aleathiel

OP

16

yeah true just last week she couldnt come out this week i couldnt come out cos i had just been to london for the day wednesday (thursday's the day i go out with friends)
most of the time i try to arrange something she cant come so im stuck for what to do..

Reply 3

aleathiel

OP

16

we dont go to school together.. infact im a 3rd year at college and she doesnt go to college, im pretty sure she works full time heh so its hard to see her anyway..

oh spoke to a friend earlier and he said still text her and she how she is now and then but when she's ready she'll say something so not to be pushy and needy cos she tends not to like that..

Reply 4

magiccarpet

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aleathiel

.. didnt wanna type it all out again so just coppied and pasted from another forum where i posted this heh..

when i started college sept 2002 i met this wonderful girl and we sorta became friends (she knows my best friend as they went to the same school) anyways she's bi which i didnt find out till sometime last year and at the time we met i was kinda questioning myself like hmm am i bi or not?? cos i knew i liked girls anyways i didnt realise right away that i liked her and then didnt see much of her for a while (i think she left college or something not too sure now) anyways she had a bf so for a while i couldnt do anything and they just split up a few weeks ago or so.. im not sure when it was. Not long after this my friend said to her that i like her and she says she likes me too but needs space and im wondering how much space does she need? I wanna make the next move but my friend says i should wait for her to make the next move and i havent actually seen her since i found out she likes me. This was actually the 12th of may but it seems like much longer heh cos when we all plan to go out either she cant go or i cant go :s-smilie:

its really getting to me cos she's really special but i dunno what to do, ive never felt this way about anyone before!
oh and she already knew i like her cos i seem to make it kinda obvious one reason being the way i look at her (my friend calls it the look of love) :frown:

i think by 'she needs space' they mean she needs time to get over her bf. was it a serious relationship?she might like you otherwise she wouldnt have said she does, so it seems she's waiting to get over the bf. anyway, the 12 may wasnt really a long time ago. if you have her number, give her a call in a week or so. if you dont have it, get a frind to ask her for it.

Reply 5

jd27

aleathiel

.. didnt wanna type it all out again so just coppied and pasted from another forum where i posted this heh..

when i started college sept 2002 i met this wonderful girl and we sorta became friends (she knows my best friend as they went to the same school) anyways she's bi which i didnt find out till sometime last year and at the time we met i was kinda questioning myself like hmm am i bi or not?? cos i knew i liked girls anyways i didnt realise right away that i liked her and then didnt see much of her for a while (i think she left college or something not too sure now) anyways she had a bf so for a while i couldnt do anything and they just split up a few weeks ago or so.. im not sure when it was. Not long after this my friend said to her that i like her and she says she likes me too but needs space and im wondering how much space does she need? I wanna make the next move but my friend says i should wait for her to make the next move and i havent actually seen her since i found out she likes me. This was actually the 12th of may but it seems like much longer heh cos when we all plan to go out either she cant go or i cant go :s-smilie:

its really getting to me cos she's really special but i dunno what to do, ive never felt this way about anyone before!
oh and she already knew i like her cos i seem to make it kinda obvious one reason being the way i look at her (my friend calls it the look of love) :frown:

Give her her space - it's better that way. A friend of mine broke up with his gf, with whom he was very much in love (and vice-versa), a few months ago. They are both going out with new people now, but haven't gotten over each other. She's breaking up with the new person because of this, and he might too.

Wait for her to make the move - if she likes you and isn't keen on people being overly keen, it's best if you try to distract yourself from thinking about her until she makes a move on you.

Reply 6

aleathiel

OP

16

thanks guys :smile:

i dunno what to do anymore

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