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Would you be angry if a girl gave your bf a (clothed) lapdance?

It didn't happen to me, it happened to a friend and her boyfriend and it also included another female friend of mine. but i thought i'd get some opinions on it! :smile:

at a friends house a few weeks ago, 2 friends of mine (they're together as a bf/gf couple) lets call them amy and dan, went to another mates flat warming party. another friend of ours (she's a friend of amy and dan too), lets call her kirsty was drinking quite a bit..

anyway, while they were all sitting on the sofas chatting an hanging out listening to music, this kirsty girl starts giving dan a lap dance in front of amy, his girlfriend.. she was completely clothed but she was being very full on apparently, acting slutty and completely rubbing it in amy's face).

amy has been talking to me about it since it happened and shes still hurt, dan just thinks it was fun.

what do you guys think? would you be annoyed even if she was wearing clothes?

Reply 1

Anonymous #1

No different to a guy flirting with your girlfriend in front of you and your girl not doing anything about it i suppose. So what do you think?

Reply 2

Pinball_heart

13

If someone did that to my bf I would fully knock them out there and then.
End of.

Reply 3

SiaSiaSia

16

I think she has every right to be offended
just on a lesser degree than if she were naked

Reply 4

stef---x

I'd be mad at her, not at him.

Reply 5

kiko09

OP

6

See.. i dont know, myself. i mean, in a way i can see why she could be mad at both of them. 1, mad at the girl and 2, mad that the boyfriend did nothing?.. i'm not sure what to think, im trying not to put my views on her because i wasnt there but she's still upset about the whole thing

Reply 6

kiko09

OP

6

plus she's a shy girl, so she wouldn't get up and hit the girl who did it or anything. she said she was really upset and sat there numb not knowing what to do and hoping --- would ask her to get off

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Reply 7

sharpesparkle

16

Mad at her, not him.

Reply 8

mollymustard

14

Yes! Thats despicable and rude. I think that sort of thing can be done in a jokey manner but the way you have described it makes it sound horrible. I think the girl has every right to be angry and irritated especially if she was forced to look on.

Reply 9

Bezaberry

1

Hell no. If that was me, I wouldn't let her do it, let alone right in front of my girlfriend. 0_o

Reply 10

radiated yoghurt

11

I'd be mad at both tbh, I'd never let a girl do that to me (unless it was my girlfriend, and then only in private really...)

Reply 11

A.R.E

sorry but thats such a stupid question..

please don't tell me your actually expecting any answers other than...

yes ofcourse i'd be angry...

because if you actually expect that then your a mong...

Reply 12

Agony Aunt

11

The boyfriend should have asked her to stop! He's partly to blame.

Reply 13

Natasharox

13

I'd be unbelievable mad at both of them, at the girl for doing it, and at the guy for letting it happen! Disrespectful on so many levels.

Reply 14

oCapulet

That's ridiculously rude and obnoxious of the girl. If I were you I'd support your friend - whether you were there or not, you can make some kind of rough judgement for the sake of helping her right?
You say she's quite quiet, well, she's probably turning it over and over in her mind wishing she'd done something, and if she's confided in you, do your best to get her to voice her annoyance! I.e. to her boyfriend and/or the girl. Sounds like stirring up trouble, but that's better than to let the resentment fester. :smile:

Reply 15

EskimoJo

18

I'm also a shy girl... I'd have made a scene. Probably only by getting up and sitting on my bf's lap, but whatever.

Reply 16

rukouine88

well if she was pissd off her head... but yh its not the nicest thing to do, esp with the gf RIGHT THERE.. if it were me i would have stopped her and asked her to leave or leave (bf in tow) myself ..... and then plot a way to make her 'fall down the stairs' look like an accitdent... (lol)