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Reply 1

You hate shallow guys, but you still wanna go on a date with someone who lives up to your standards. Would you go on a blind date if there was a chance the guy was an absolute munter?

Reply 2

Would you go on a blind date though?

You're saying that you want to know what he looks like, and he has to be cute and everything; however he should be ignorant of your looks and take you on personality alone, otherwise he's shallow?

Reply 3

bete noire
You hate shallow guys, but you still wanna go on a date with someone who lives up to your standards. Would you go on a blind date if there was a chance the guy was an absolute munter?

If he had a nice personality, yes.

Reply 4

Craig_D
Would you go on a blind date though?

You're saying that you want to know what he looks like, and he has to be cute and everything; however he should be ignorant of your looks and take you on personality alone, otherwise he's shallow?

I've been on one, it was great, but the guy lived too far and was holidays anyway. So nothing came from it, we just hung out and were friends. No chemistry.

Reply 5

Craig_D
Would you go on a blind date though?

You're saying that you want to know what he looks like, and he has to be cute and everything; however he should be ignorant of your looks and take you on personality alone, otherwise he's shallow?


Exactly!

Reply 6

bete noire
You hate shallow guys, but you still wanna go on a date with someone who lives up to your standards.

I know I sound shallow, but yes.

I'm not particularly attractive, but yes, I do want to go out with someone who I find attractive and for me that is male model standard. I'm smart and think I have qualities that they usually would not go for.

Reply 7

danni_bella
If the girl knew what YOU looked like, and was like, but you had no idea what she looked like and was like in personality.

I wanna know!!! :biggrin:

I've always wanted to go on a blind date with a cute guy who had no idea what I looked like :love: Haha x


Hi, Im Phil..

:smile:

Reply 8

bete noire
Exactly!

Yep! I am.


But then, I would be shallow, and he wouldn't. This is hypothetical.

I'm actually not that shallow :wink:

Reply 9

danni_bella
If he had a nice personality, yes.


Then why does the guy need to be cute? Blind dates are a two way street buddy, going by what you said in yer OP, you're as shallow as anyone else man.

It ain't a bad thing at all, but you're harboring some real double standards

Reply 10

Craig_D
Would you go on a blind date though?

You're saying that you want to know what he looks like, and he has to be cute and everything; however he should be ignorant of your looks and take you on personality alone, otherwise he's shallow?

I am not interested in going on a blind date.

I want to go on a date with a guy who has NO idea what I look like, but he has an idea of my personality, ie. I'm studying to be a librarian.

Is this too much to ask?

Just one off!

Would you do it? Would you go on a blind date, not knowing what the woman looked like? You'd only be wasting a couple of hours anyway.

Reply 11

danni_bella


I'm not particularly attractive,


Oh, come on. That aint the truth,

Reply 12

bete noire
Then why does the guy need to be cute? Blind dates are a two way street buddy, going by what you said in yer OP, you're as shallow as anyone else man.

It ain't a bad thing at all, but you're harboring some real double standards

The guy has to be at least attractive to ME, yes.

And I agree. I am a bit shallow.

But because I am insecure, I would like to one day go out on a date where I already find the guy cute, and he has no idea what I look like.

Is it really too much to ask?

Reply 13

I went on one. it was weird tbh. The girl was hot, but really not my type.

Reply 14

bete noire
Oh, come on. That aint the truth,

Really.

Why is it, that in the three relationships I have had, I have had to make ALL the moves. Ask them out. Then get dumped.

I'm also of a background which isn't considered highly attractive in my country.

But I'd rather not talk about that. Basically I just want the tables turned for once, I always get judged and in dating I at least want to do the judging. Pick a stud, and he has no idea what I look like, then we go on a date and IF he likes me, then that's great.

Reply 15

no fishing for compliments lady!

but yes id definately go on a blind date i find the idea quite exciting.

god i need a life

Reply 16

danni_bella
I know I sound shallow, but yes.

I'm not particularly attractive, but yes, I do want to go out with someone who I find attractive and for me that is male model standard. I'm smart and think I have qualities that they usually would not go for.

BTW you're screwed. Guys are infinitely more shallow than girls, if he thinks he can do better than you, he won't settle for you. Sad but true.

Reply 17

danni_bella
The guy has to be at least attractive to ME, yes.

And I agree. I am a bit shallow.

But because I am insecure, I would like to one day go out on a date where I already find the guy cute, and he has no idea what I look like.

Is it really too much to ask?


Its too much to ask because it just isn't fair. You're allowed to judge the guy on the basis of his looks and his personality, but he only has your personality to go on.


It's not bad because its shallow, everyone wants to be with someone they find attractive. its bad because its unfair and its a double standard.

He's the only one taking a risk and going out on a limb, you know exactly what you're going to get. It just doesn't make sense.

Reply 18

n0c0ntr0l
I went on one. it was weird tbh. The girl was hot, but really not my type.

But did she know what you looked like?

I'm just saying.

Like let's say a random girl on here saw your pics somewhere and thought you were awesome looking. You had no idea what she looked like. But she wanted to go on a date with you.

Would you do it?? :biggrin:

Reply 19

bete noire
Its too much to ask because it just isn't fair. You're allowed to judge the guy on the basis of his looks and his personality, but he only has your personality to go on.


It's not bad because its shallow, everyone wants to be with someone they find attractive. its bad because its unfair and its a double standard.

He's the only one taking a risk and going out on a limb, you know exactly what you're going to get. It just doesn't make sense.
But what if it's ACCIDENTAL?? :smile:

That's my point.

Say, a girl on here who saw your pics and and posts, then developed a crush on you.

And she had no access to photos, but wanted to go on a date with you. Agree or no go?