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Hey everyone. Well, there's this guy that I've liked at my school for about 6 months now...I thought he felt the same...but after I found out he hooked up with some girl at a party I ignored his flirting and such. But he always stared at me and ignored me if I tried to IM him online; in addition to other weird things he did. Just recently, about two months ago, he increased the staring. I saw him looking at these pictures of me that I have on Myspace in Computer class...even though he's been going out with this girl for a couple of months, though it doesn't even seem like he's that interested in her. I'm so confused as to what he's doing, so I was wondering if anyone could help me out a little? Do you think he does care about me? Sorry if I wasted anyone's time by posting this, but this has been a problem for awhile.

Thanks in advance,

Alison

Reply 1

naelse

15

he sounds really immature IMO.

Reply 2

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OP

1

Yeah, he is. But I don't see him stare at anyone else, so that's why i'm confused. And he was always complimenting me and stuff awhile ago; but he'd ignore me online. One time he and I talked online for an hour and a half, but then I IM-ed him the next day, and he ignored me. so you just think he's being stupid?

Reply 3

Trigger

18

if i were you be flattered he likes you but be aware hes toxic and playing mind gamesn he'l either get bored or actually do something about it be polite speak when spoken to but leave it at that he sounds like a tease reallly

Reply 4

KdySk8rGirl

I think he likes you, but maybe doesnt know if you want him.

Reply 5

co co

ignore him, he seems a bit werid to be honest

Reply 6

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OP

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Lol, he is kind of weird. But yeah, my friend heard him talking to hia friends saying, "I was talking to this girl online the other night for awhile and I like her a lot, but I don't know if she likes me." I guess I wasn't upfront enough with my feelings, but I mean, I always stared at him and he saw it, and I called him on his phone...but yeah. What do you think I should do? I don't know if I said anything it would change much, because his girlfriend, to be honest, has him whipped. She doesn't let him do anything without her. I just don't know how to handle the situation.

Reply 7

Trigger

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DarkShadows08

Lol, he is kind of weird. But yeah, my friend heard him talking to hia friends saying, "I was talking to this girl online the other night for awhile and I like her a lot, but I don't know if she likes me." I guess I wasn't upfront enough with my feelings, but I mean, I always stared at him and he saw it, and I called him on his phone...but yeah. What do you think I should do? I don't know if I said anything it would change much, because his girlfriend, to be honest, has him whipped. She doesn't let him do anything without her. I just don't know how to handle the situation.

do you really trust a guythat has a gf but insisits on flirting with you

Reply 8

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OP

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I guess not, but it doesn't seem like he's interested her in anyway.

I know that doesn't change that they're going out, but all he does is be flirty with her...he doesn't really flirt with me. Anything he does is in secret. Looking at my pictures...if I catch him staring at me he turns away.

Reply 9

Trigger

18

ignore him get on with your life seroiusly!

Reply 10

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OP

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Aah I can't help it! I've tried, believe me. Why won't he move on and leave me alone is the better question! Lol. But the problem is, I want to be with him.

Reply 11

ZigZag

11

Call me crazy, but you could always ask him where you stand.

Reply 12

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OP

1

That's true. But I'm a little scared to do that. But you're right, I probably should.

Reply 13

Unregistered

try to ignore him for a while, to see his reaction for that
may be he talks for another girl to make you feel jealous

Reply 14

englishrose

1

He seems very immature to me. How old is he, may I ask?

Reply 15

spoonofdeath

I wouldn't read too much into the ignoring you online thing. If you want to be with him and don't think he actually likes his current gf and is just going with her 'for kicks' I'd say try and make something happen between you to, or just arrange to meet up and chat, even if it's not about the whole 'it seems like you're stalking me' thing, cause then he'll probably either do something or stop the sillyness.

People should be more forgiving of people being immature it's not like many of us are particularly old and wise :tongue:

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Reply 16

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OP

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Thanks for the help everybody! :smile:

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