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GIRLS: How do you feel about being felt up when kissing a guy?

Me and my friends were talking about this the other day.

Say you pull a guy and he puts his hand up your top etc. how do you feel about it?

We had very varried opinions and i wanted some of yours too. Do you tell him where to go or go with the flow?

:smile:

THANKS

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Reply 1

Sakura-Chan

Up my top? Not in public I hope, I don't want the entire world seeing that really :p:

Over the clothes is fine. Grope away.

Reply 2

wrappedups

In public, please dont do that, for the people around as well as for the girl.
Alone, at home, or somewhere private- go for it.
If im kissing a guy, i clearly like him enough to let him feel me up, im all for it!

Reply 3

Footballfiend08

Define between touched up and groped. Ive seen both, and I think I know which ones girls prefer lol

Reply 4

Floofy

Not at the bus stop o_O.

Reply 5

Ayostunner

It depends if im in the mood to let hiim do that!
and if i've just pulled the guy then its defo a no no!
but if its my boyfriend he can grope wherever he likes as long as we're not in public :biggrin:

Reply 6

irish_4_life

yeah sorry i meant say a boy comes over or your on a date, walking somewhere remote and you start kissing. Not somewhere really public!

Reply 7

PerfectDrug

It's fine, well unless 'they' become the main attraction.

Reply 8

truthandtragedy

Like others have said, if it's in private then it's alright. Unless it's the first time I've met him and he's clearly sleazing. Then I'd tell him where to go. But if it was someone I liked, then sure.

Reply 9

Cultivated

Public teasing is better than private teasing :coma:

Reply 10

stephyrose23

Please do so.

But not in public.
Or maybe in public if no one else can see . . . :tongue:

Reply 11

Anonymous #1

Considering I've never been kissed before, Id say that would be totally disrespectful & rude in public, but it's up to you what you do in private

Reply 12

Pawsies

I've got this male friend who felt downstairs on his ex under the table [this was on more than one occasion]. It was obvious and we were all like :eek:

It was disgusting.

Therefore if I was to kiss a guy I could not let him do that to me in public, I'd probably remove his hand and be like 'not now :wink:

'

But that probably won't ever happen :biggrin:

Reply 13

Coy Girl

Well, all in the appropriate situation and all that, and I've never thought of it as 'feeling up'. However, if it's passionate and he still has his hands in his pockets, I would be disappointed.

Reply 14

Anonymous #2

I wouldn't really like to be felt up in a public place, but when there is basically no one around then I don't see a problem. :smile:

Reply 15

BabyGirl92

If we're alone or somewhere where nobody can see us I don't mind them touching my boobs, but I hate them seeing them lol! It kind of makes it more intimate. Wouldn't want them to do it the first few times we kissed though, or if we hardly knew each other.

Reply 16

Miss_Scarlet

Well probably not in a busy place.
But otherwise, depending on the people then I'd like it cos I'd feel very desired...
but maybe don't do it the first time you kiss her unless she likes that kinda stuff and shows it before you try...