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My Boyfriend HATES me going on TSR!

omg,

well ive just had a convo withmy boyfriend and apparently hes very annoyed at me about going on the internet and tsr all the time.

ive had alot of time off school due to my next exam isnt untill the end of june. So a majority of days when all my mates are at home revising, including my boyfriend...and im stuck at home with nothing to do.

to be honest i cant really see anything else to do,
- i live in the middle of nowhere so i cant get to see any of my m8s (+their revising) and i cant drive.
- i dont have any revision to do for a couple of weeks
- there isnt anything mildly enriching in my house other than the tv and comp.

i'm not lazy and to me the internet is my last resort, but i find myself on it almost every day just because i simply CANNOT think of anything else to do......(other than taking the dog out...and sleeping lol)

i really wanna solve this problem but im going to need some ideas to keep myself occupied until i get a job after my final exam.

i really want to do this as my boyfriend is very unhappy about it....

thanks for puttin up with my long thread....

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Reply 1
Cazzi_Bear
omg,

well ive just had a convo withmy boyfriend and apparently hes very annoyed at me about going on the internet and tsr all the time.

ive had alot of time off school due to my next exam isnt untill the end of june. So a majority of days when all my mates are at home revising, including my boyfriend...and im stuck at home with nothing to do.

to be honest i cant really see anything else to do,
- i live in the middle of nowhere so i cant get to see any of my m8s (+their revising) and i cant drive.
- i dont have any revision to do for a couple of weeks
- there isnt anything mildly enriching in my house other than the tv and comp.

i'm not lazy and to me the internet is my last resort, but i find myself on it almost every day just because i simply CANNOT think of anything else to do......(other than taking the dog out...and sleeping lol)

i really wanna solve this problem but im going to need some ideas to keep myself occupied until i get a job after my final exam.

i really want to do this as my boyfriend is very unhappy about it....

thanks for puttin up with my long thread....


How does he know you're on here all the time?

Oh, and just because your exam isn't 'til the end of june, it doesn't mean you can't revise for it. Think of the grade you'd get if you started revision for it now... :smile:
lessthanthree

a)geeks
b)Horny cam*****s
c)very fat, balding old men
d) Pale Furry nerds obsessed with japan and gwen stefani

Haha :rofl:
Reply 3
I'd tell him to shut up.
Reply 4
Cazzi_Bear
to be honest i cant really see anything else to do,
- i live in the middle of nowhere so i cant get to see any of my m8s (+their revising) and i cant drive.
- i dont have any revision to do for a couple of weeks
- there isnt anything mildly enriching in my house other than the tv and comp.

i'm not lazy and to me the internet is my last resort, but i find myself on it almost every day just because i simply CANNOT think of anything else to do......(other than taking the dog out...and sleeping lol)






Why change what you enjoy doing for a man? Its your life! Once you change something you change everything!

You've pretty much said theres nothing for you to do. What can we suggest?

Knitting or something?


Exactly.
Reply 5
Fleff
How does he know you're on here all the time?

Oh, and just because your exam isn't 'til the end of june, it doesn't mean you can't revise for it. Think of the grade you'd get if you started revision for it now... :smile:


lol i know....but i cant revise all the time!! lol

i just mean lesiure time really......
Reply 6
Cazzi_Bear
lol i know....but i cant revise all the time!! lol

i just mean lesiure time really......


Ok, fair enough :smile:

But seriously, how does he know? Does he check on here to see what you're posting, or have you just told him, or what?
Fleff
Ok, fair enough :smile:

But seriously, how does he know? Does he check on here to see what you're posting, or have you just told him, or what?

maybe he is spying on you and is sercetly registered with TSR
Reply 8
maybe he's me!!!








....or not
my bf posts on here too...so he has nothing to complain about...








except the fact that he can't go into the backroom frustrates him... :rolleyes:
Reply 10
Ask him why it bothers him cos it shouldn't :confused:

Just a forum lol
Reply 11
lessthanthree
what's he unhappy about?

you talking to strangers? or talking about him?

And why does he think he can dictate what you can and can't do? I mean, I know stereotypically the internet is supposed to only be home to a few breeds of people
a)geeks
b)Horny cam*****s
c)very fat, balding old men
d) Pale Furry nerds obsessed with japan and gwen stefani



lol @ that... :smile:

well basically he has issues with me being on the internet because he has been taught that it is "sad" and that if you chat to people your life is dull and boring and u have no imagination. Obviously i dont believe this cuz i love chatting to random people on TSR and giving advice, its time consuming, interesting and fun

also his ex was one of those people who went and met loads of pervs off the net and hes worried ill go down the same route, which i most definatly will not!

i only ever talk to people on TSR......and as far as i know all of u are a decent bunch! :smile:
Reply 12
Fleff
Ok, fair enough :smile:

But seriously, how does he know? Does he check on here to see what you're posting, or have you just told him, or what?


he knows because ive told him i come on here occasionaly....and he is a member but has only posted...like twice
My ex- used to be like that.
How pathetic. Some people need to take their heads out of their arse and realise you ain't doing anything wrong! :biggrin:
Reply 14
all im trying to do is trying to respect his views on the forum, trying to make him happy.
but the fact is that i enjoy talking to people on here if im feeling bored or lonely....
(dont get me wrong i do have pleanty of mates, who also have tonnes of exams!)


oh difficulties........
Cazzi_Bear

i only ever talk to people on TSR......and as far as i know all of u are a decent bunch! :smile:


Not all of us are decent. :eek:

Your bf is a ****** :tsr: :tsr: :tsr:
My boyfriend is exactly the same but I just don't mention it- he'd certainly get funny if he knew I was paying to subscribe but hey, I'm a bit nerdy, so what? It's my choice, it's not like I'm have cyber with millions of people on here, all I'm doing is talking with some other people my age!
Reply 17
PinkPigeon
My boyfriend is exactly the same but I just don't mention it- he'd certainly get funny if he knew I was paying to subscribe but hey, I'm a bit nerdy, so what? It's my choice, it's not like I'm have cyber with millions of people on here, all I'm doing is talking with some other people my age!


exactly!

and noxid.....i know some people arn't decent...im not that gullible! lol
Reply 18
PinkPigeon
My boyfriend is exactly the same but I just don't mention it- he'd certainly get funny if he knew I was paying to subscribe but hey, I'm a bit nerdy, so what? It's my choice, it's not like I'm have cyber with millions of people on here, all I'm doing is talking with some other people my age!


maybe i just shouldnt tell him...........but then im such a honest person and i hate lying :confused:
Reply 19
lessthanthree


why don't you encourage him to sign on?


exactly how i feel.....i know ur all normal people and if there was to be any perverts etc etc. you trusty amazing mods will chuck them out! lol :smile:

he is a member, but only uses it for physics advice in the academic bit. hes posted a couple of times but cant understand why i talk to people....:confused:

men eh?