Can you love someone too much?

I was just looking for some opinions on this. I know it may sound like a really silly question, but do you think there is a point where you can love someone too much? To the point where it drives you crazy, or you start to get really protective, because maybe you're too scared to lose them?

Thoughts please.

Is this how you are feeling at the moment?

Not necessarily, but in ways, yeah.
It's really hard to describe without sounding either way too intense, or completely insane.

noo go ahead, or PM me explaining if you like.. I think i may have had a similar experience.

Not necessarily, but in ways, yeah.
It's really hard to describe without sounding either way too intense, or completely insane.

Well we've been going out a while now, and i can honestly say I've never felt like this before. I love him so much, and he knows that I do. But I don't know if it's doing me any good. Like all of a sudden I'm really overprotective. I've never been like that with exes before. And I find myself getting really annoyed or upset over silly things. Like we're going to Spain in the Summer, and it's the first time i've went away on holiday with just my boyfriend. But the place we're going to, he took his ex girlfriend like two years ago. And it's an apartment, so we'd be staying in the same room, in the same bed, and doing the same things they did. Even though it was really sweet him asking me to go, and I really do want to, I started thinking about how he'd be thinking about her while we were doing all the stuff, and got really upset, and ended up making him feel bad. I know this is totally irrational, and there's nothing he can do about his past. I didn't even know him then, so why am I getting so annoyed?

Oh wow I know exactly how you feel, I'd feel the same honestly. My boyfriend wanted us to go to Whitby together and I can't do it cos he went there with her and we'd be going to the same places doing the same things.. ew. I'm pretty bad though like I don't even want to go in his bedroom at home cos they've slept together there and I can't bring myself to be around somewhere they did that. I personally think I'm just a bit of a nut though.

I didn't realise until we'd talked about Spain that they would have done stuff in that bed. I don't know, I've never been like this before, and it's really out of character for me, so I don't really blame myself. It's just, because of my overreactions and paranoia, we're fighting a lot, and I end up crying a lot. Like he can make me so so happy, but it's so easy for him to make me sad aswell. And I don't know what to do because I don't want to turn into this psycho girlfriend that I can see myself becoming.

No I know, well just explain it to him. I know how you feel cos yeah it will hurt his feelings, when I told my boyfriend about how I felt he got so upset because he thought it was his fault, but when you tell yours just make it clear that you're not REMOTELY blaming him, its all YOU and it's in your head, it's your issue and that you can't help feeling like that. But you should tell him, holding it in won't help unless you think it will subside later on and you can enjoy/ pretend to be ok about going to this place in Spain with him.
But you sound exactly like me, we ended up fighting a lot and constantly and I dunno it's almost like a part of me just can't get over that part of him. Which is wrong - it's in the past it's done now and he's with you. Just try to focus on that.