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Me and my 'boyfriend' apparently made it official last night. He was a little bit drunk but not much and I'm not sure how it happened but we ended up saying we were together. We've been sort of 'together' for a while, but nothing official. His friends told me that he really likes me, so I'm not doubting that, but he's not a very serious person. We kept being like 'HI BOYFRIEND' 'HI GIRLFRIEND' like, in a jokey way.
This is going to sound very gay but he said he was going to change his status on FB, then I spoke to him this morning on FB and said 'its not official until FB says it is!' and he said 'yeah i'll change it in 5 minutes".
He hasn't. Its been like 5 hours. Of course.
I'm just wondering, from what I've told you, is he actually my boyfriend? Or is this just a joke?
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if you're happy with eachother i dont really see why it matters if its "official" or not, me and my gf were seeing eachother and she wanted us to be bf and gf and i was like "whats the difference?"
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Well if its not on facebook yet then hes not your boyfriend, sowwy =(
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If it's not facebook offical it's not official at all. :no:
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If facebook doesn't confirm it then it can't be official!...:nah:
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Facebook is the decider!
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I don't really think it sounds like he doesn't want it to be serious. It seems like he wants to be with you.
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omg! i just went on facebook and he's changed his status to 'its complicated'!!! wtf..

i just changed mine to in a relationship and requested it with him.... bad idea?

maybe if he's like hmmm what are you doing i guess I can be like 'what? i was just playing a long with the joke!'

orrrr...should i take it off before he comes online..
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omg! i just went on facebook and he's changed his status to 'its complicated'!!! wtf..

i just changed mine to in a relationship and requested it with him.... bad idea?

maybe if he's like hmmm what are you doing i guess I can be like 'what? i was just playing a long with the joke!'

orrrr...should i take it off before he comes online..
hes an idiot.. i dont think hes taking the relationship that seriously. sorry
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omg! i just went on facebook and he's changed his status to 'its complicated'!!! wtf..

i just changed mine to in a relationship and requested it with him.... bad idea?

maybe if he's like hmmm what are you doing i guess I can be like 'what? i was just playing a long with the joke!'

orrrr...should i take it off before he comes online..

no cause he will stll get a relationship status, although he wont be able to click it, but he will see you previously tried to request it.

dont worry, if worst comes to worst, play it cool and just say 'hey! I was just playing along too' Then go back to normal. Will COMPLETELY throw him!
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a joke
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(Original post by Anonymous)
Me and my 'boyfriend' apparently made it official last night. He was a little bit drunk but not much and I'm not sure how it happened but we ended up saying we were together. We've been sort of 'together' for a while, but nothing official. His friends told me that he really likes me, so I'm not doubting that, but he's not a very serious person. We kept being like 'HI BOYFRIEND' 'HI GIRLFRIEND' like, in a jokey way.
This is going to sound very gay but he said he was going to change his status on FB, then I spoke to him this morning on FB and said 'its not official until FB says it is!' and he said 'yeah i'll change it in 5 minutes".
He hasn't. Its been like 5 hours. Of course.
I'm just wondering, from what I've told you, is he actually my boyfriend? Or is this just a joke?
He really likes you and you have been seeing eachother for some time soobviously he is serious about being into you.
He isn't a serious person so i reckon him changing his status to 'its complicated' is probably just a joke to get a reaction out of you or something, but of course that doesn't mean your actual relationship is a joke, hes just messsing around.

If it turns out (i think unlikely) that your relationship with im is a joke then talk to him about it, he will look so stupid and immature
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Lol at facebook. Well according to my facebook I have a son who is 24 (i'm 20 ) and a daughter called Andrew who is 19. Must be official cos facebook says so.

Sounds a bit petty. your either together or your not ask him outright. God i hate guys who faff about and string along.
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