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n0c0ntr0l
Okay, I'll add the third catergory.


The hot ones who can't find Mr. Right. Placing you and Bubbles and Lella_m in here.


Bubbles? Hot? no.. :no:

just no.
Bowlsey
What exactly do I say to them then?


Depends. Do you ever talk to them about this stuff? I'm not saying that you should expect them to kiss you or anything but they are girls, they also have friends who are girls...
Anonymous
Bubbles? Hot? no.. :no:

just no.

Good point. But you get the idea. Ooo actually illora-dani (or w/e her name is) should be in that list, she goes on and on about it too!

edit on second thoughts remove her all together. Cause it's not like she's a virgin or anything.
Trigger
Try Voodoo


This.

If you sell your soul to me, i will get any girl you want.
:ssaw: :mob:
King4eva
This.

If you sell your soul to me, i will get any girl you want.
:ssaw: :mob:

Witch docto! Get yor, stinking juju ass outta my area, or I go beat you well well! You go kno yourself today!
Reply 125
Bowlsey
What do you mean talking first?


By 'talking first' I mean instead of going up to random girls and 'flirting' as you put it, just speak to them.
Reply 126
n0c0ntr0l
Dude, gimme your msn, gimme 1/2 hour to do the dishes and I will sort you out! I excel in sorting out your type.

You need a hobby....
lm_wfc
You need a hobby....

I have quite a few.
they include in order of preference:
Dj'ing
Dating women
Boxing
Gyming
Helping people
Playing shooting games
Reply 128
I'm guessing the best solution will be hitting the clubs like everybody has been saying. I agree with _Fleur_ if you can get somebody you slightly know to go with then atleast your not going on your own and you will be more comfortable. Once the alcohol hits you your confidence will increase loads which will make it easier talking to the ladies. Hit the dance floor aswell, you normally end up dancing with a girl and then just ask her if she wants a drink or just say its getting hot in here do you want to get some air...? Then move on from there.

Other solution would be friends of friends just socialise with your girlfriends more and you will get to know their friends, it could work.

Remember confidence is everything! :wink:
It is nice to have that special first kiss I know, but if you really want to get one soon, don't go out clubbing too often and are friend zoned as you say some mopre creative options are needed: (i'm sorry if most include some influence of alcohol - just to loosen up, mind :smile:

1. If you have a job - get one in time for the Christmas, New Years parties etc. On new years eve (long way off yes, but next big excuse for a party everywhere) find out where everyone in the town/place you are staying gathers and hope for some spontaneous action as the clock strikes midnight,...even a random pretty girl in the crowd :smile: Don't get wasted first obviously, that would be pointless but everyone will have loosend up a bit!

2. Have a 'random' suggestion of a game of spin the bottle, where appropriate... If there is nowhere, go on, you're on your gap year - grab your friends and start one on the beach/town square!

3. If clubbing's not your thing, look into societies, groups maybe of more quiet hobbies that are more your thing. Unless its advanced level programming, there are bound to be a few girls there who you won't know, and share your pastime. Language courses work pretty well too - language schools which offer 1 or 2 week courses even, have many events and pasrties where you can get together with your multinational classmates. (I know - I've been on one!)

Always remember though, that some girl, somewhere is probably feeling exactly the same as you right now, and desperate to land that guy for the first time. =) So don't let your confidence fall too far. However rather than sitting in watching TV you do have to shake up your social circles a bit, friends of friends are common for first relationships and can work well.

If all else fails...maybe you do need to consider your approach to girls - and possibly general appearance and manner. Shy guys are cool too but not hermits (not suggesting you may be but, yeah)
n0c0ntr0l
Witch docto! Get yor, stinking juju ass outta my area, or I go beat you well well! You go kno yourself today!


lol black magic works faster than everything else.
Anonymous
Bubbles? Hot? no.. :no:

just no.


come on she isnt that bad...average
Bowlsey
Yes I do know some girls. They are either taken, or I am friend zoned. Trust me I have tried :s-smilie:


I know that problem only too well...
Bowlsey
None of my friends are the clubbing type. Neither am I. I would gladly go if they're willing. But they aren't. I would feel very uncomfortable being by myself

Yes I do know some girls. They are either taken, or I am friend zoned. Trust me I have tried :s-smilie:


You need to be assertive than that. "Lads, we ARE going clubbing this weekend"
Even if just to the pub (a lively one though) or bar, then onto a club if no luck there.
You can do it!

haha
fallen angel9
Don't randomly PM girls. Quote them in threads or join some of the societies and talk to them. Then PM them :yep:


Ready?

:p:
Reply 135
Raccoons are Cool
Ask Judith of Eggheads she will pull anyone :smile:


Seems like you've got lots of experience with her? :wink:
Reply 136
Parties, anyone kisses anyone there. :smile:
Reply 137
follow the white rabbit.
How the **** can anyone by 18 and never be kissed, let alone lost their virginity?? looooool!! :zomg:
I think a lot off ppl are right- clubs is the best bet... if ur friends dnt wna go clubbing, try and meet new people who do... if ur friends like going to the pub there's also potential there... AND if you get ur friends drunk in a pub, there more likely to move onto clubs (i have a friend who hates going clubbing initially when shes sober... so i get her drunk first and then drag her with the pack ^_^) hehe
also, if ur drunk in the pub u could always drunk chat with guys who go clubbing- they may take u wid them. sounds lame but ive made quite a few friends whilst drunk haha xD I just talk 2 anyone wen im drunk xD

but from a girls perspective- when we are drunk we dont mind so much you in our faces, as long as ur not creepy with it ^_^ buuuh sober is a no go for most women :smile: I agree, small chit chat is probz the best...
go to gigs too! they're good for relationships, a lot of my friends have dated ppl from concerts and ****... you just gotta get out more mate, break the circle that ur in- like dont abandon ur mates, but theyre not like the only friends you could ever have :smile:
be more confident... also from ur foto u look like you got the quiet cute guy thing going for you- i'd work on that- girls either like the cuties, or like me (le bad boys :wink:) oooh yeah ahahaha :smile: good luck (Y)

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