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My cousin hit on me...

I was out clubbing with my older cousin by 2 years and he kissed me, I was so shocked I didnt realise what was happening for a few seconds until I pulled away, though I think those few seconds made him think I was interested. I know he wasnt drunk enough to not know what he was doing, but we were both pretty drunk. I cant imagine making him feel embarassed by the situation or hurting his feelings, so I dont know what to do, though it was so strange and weird that I dont understand why he would do it, and why he thought i'd want to do it, but I cant say Im not at all put off by him, though I know its a little wrong, we're not exactly family and havn't ever spent alot of time together in a family sort of way - only seeing him casually and going out for drinks every so often. He's a really great guy, and any girl would be lucky to have him, would it be totally wrong if that girl was me?

CONFUUUUUUUSED.

Reply 1

XsiaX

Anonymous

I was out clubbing with my older cousin by 2 years and he kissed me, I was so shocked I didnt realise what was happening for a few seconds until I pulled away, though I think those few seconds made him think I was interested. I know he wasnt drunk enough to not know what he was doing, but we were both pretty drunk. I cant imagine making him feel embarassed by the situation or hurting his feelings, so I dont know what to do, though it was so strange and weird that I dont understand why he would do it, and why he thought i'd want to do it, but I cant say Im not at all put off by him, though I know its a little wrong, we're not exactly family and havn't ever spent alot of time together in a family sort of way - only seeing him casually and going out for drinks every so often. He's a really great guy, and any girl would be lucky to have him, would it be totally wrong if that girl was me?

CONFUUUUUUUSED.

are you first cousins? I don't think it's a that big deal if you haven't been brought up together and don't see yourself as cousins.

Reply 2

n0c0ntr0l

12

Tell him that that can never happen again!

Reply 3

Hylean

15

Nyah, nothing wrong with it. If you want him, go for it.

Reply 4

ennC

9

Have fun telling your family and bringing up slightly inbred children

Reply 5

Joseph90

14

It's not illegal and it's down to the choice and you and your cousin. Though think of the consequences. What will your family think? What will your friends think? Can you ever have children?

Reply 6

Heathhyy01

Bit sick, not against the law tho :biggrin:

x

Reply 7

matrix15

8

Yh, he's not from Alabama is he?

I'm sure you should just not mention this at all and forget about it until it comes up in therapy many years later.

Reply 8

Jinxy

17

Hylean

Nyah, nothing wrong with it. If you want him, go for it.

This.

Not like it's immediate family either.

Reply 9

~Metoyou~

Anonymous

Just shag him and have kids which will resemmble the ones from Joesph Fitlz's cellar :s-smilie:

x

sorry but LOOOL.

Reply 10

EskimoJo

18

Joseph90

It's not illegal and it's down to the choice and you and your cousin. Though think of the consequences. What will your family think? What will your friends think? Can you ever have children?

Of course they can have children. :s-smilie:

Don't need to tell friends if she doesn't want. Just say 'I met him through family'.

Reply 11

the.white.rabbit

He's your cousin....its wrong!....tell him it can't happen - you're related.....you shouldn't really have to ask if its ok, you should know....

Reply 12

SerpentineLara

6

No. Just no.
Sorry.

I'm pretty open-minded when it comes to relationships,
but that's just wrong.

Reply 13

ScramblingtoSun

18

If he's your first cousin, and you're abviously not interested (and a bit weirded), just make sure he doesn't do it again. Him being drunk isn't an excuse, in particular if he does it again.

Reply 14

Jedi4

Nothing wrong with it.

And for everyone. Why would the kids be deformed? We don't know how closely or loosely they are cousins.

Reply 15

BlocFFC

12

Alert the elders!

:awesome:

Reply 16

yoyo462001

16

Not cool at all, i cant imagine the shame that'll bring on your family.

Reply 17

ashy

17

There's definite ew-age there.

Reply 18

Keyblade92

1

Anonymous

I was out clubbing with my older cousin by 2 years and he kissed me, I was so shocked I didnt realise what was happening for a few seconds until I pulled away, though I think those few seconds made him think I was interested. I know he wasnt drunk enough to not know what he was doing, but we were both pretty drunk. I cant imagine making him feel embarassed by the situation or hurting his feelings, so I dont know what to do, though it was so strange and weird that I dont understand why he would do it, and why he thought i'd want to do it, but I cant say Im not at all put off by him, though I know its a little wrong, we're not exactly family and havn't ever spent alot of time together in a family sort of way - only seeing him casually and going out for drinks every so often. He's a really great guy, and any girl would be lucky to have him, would it be totally wrong if that girl was me?

CONFUUUUUUUSED.

When you tell your kids that story, they'll listen extra close. That's the upside of having three ears.

Reply 19

IceCold91

yuck this is nasty.
You are family.

My cousin hit on me...

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