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Shud I/Shud I not?

I'm sure this has been asked many a time before so ill get straight to the point.

There's this Girl i really like at college, but i dunno if she likes me.

I sometimes get the feeling she is trying to tell me dont like really OTT from some of the stuff she says, but ive given her no reason to get defensive since i've hid my feelings for her really well.

What shud i do? am i reading into stuff too much.

More info avaiable on request lol.

thanks in advance.

Reply 1

r u nerdy ^^ ? get a date with that chick, no matter what, need not be candle light dinner, can be anything, such as going to town on the weekend, cinema is cool, dance course is great, etc........

good luck :smile:

Reply 2

just be her friend, dont push anything and just let it happen naturally; if your going to be together then you will be together!

Reply 3

Carpe diem

Reply 4

AtSnIaB-42
There's this Girl i really like at college, but i dunno if she likes me.


Ask her. Problem solved!! :wink:

Reply 5

I agree mate!

Reply 6

I dont want to wreck a rly good freindship do.. any ideas on how to appraoch the subject?

Reply 7

OpressedMass
Carpe diem

:cool: what he said :biggrin:

Reply 8

AtSnIaB-42
I dont want to wreck a rly good freindship do.. any ideas on how to appraoch the subject?


Ok. "Look, I KNOW we're friends, but I'd really like to go out with you as slightly MORE than just friends. If you DON'T want to be more than friends, then that's cool, we can just stay as we are."

How's that?

Reply 9

bodhisattva
Ok. "Look, I KNOW we're friends, but I'd really like to go out with you as slightly MORE than just friends. If you DON'T want to be more than friends, then that's cool, we can just stay as we are."

How's that?

Yes do that. From a female point of view, if you value the friendship and don't want to take it further, you can kind've forget it ever happened. Trust me, I've done it!

Reply 10

lessthanthree
Actually, bod's right on the money there.


Oh great. Thanks people. I'll give it a go!

cheers

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