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I've been togehter with this girl since 2 weeks and actually I really like her. Only thing that annyos me (if not disgusts me) is that being 18 she has been in more than a dozen relationships before - where many of her ex-boyfriends are good friends of mine. Thinking that she kissed/even had sex with them utterly disgusts me is this normal?
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Sounds like she would use you and move on tbh.
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makes sense seeing as they are your mates
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Do you want her, or her past?
If you really like someone... you should be able to look past it. If not look right past it to someone new!
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(Original post by Anonymous)
I've been togehter with this girl since 2 weeks and actually I really like her. Only thing that annyos me (if not disgusts me) is that being 18 she has been in more than a dozen relationships before - where many of her ex-boyfriends are good friends of mine. Thinking that she kissed/even had sex with them utterly disgusts me is this normal?
ask her how many people she has shagged, if its more that 3 either join the fck fest or just get it over with
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Can't change the past. Either get over it or tell her you don't want it to carry on but don't mess her about making your mind up.
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Girls like that don't change.
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Whores will be whores. You can't change them. But you can use them.
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(Original post by Davezk)
Girls like that don't change.
this, ever wondered why she has had so many boyfriends? she is only 18
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this, ever wondered why she has had so many boyfriends? she is only 18
Her father 'touched' her when she was 12?
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Why does everyone assume it's 'cos she's a ****? Lots of girls have sex with guys just so they'll stay with them. More often than not the guy is just using the girl and will get rid of her when he's bored.
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Twelve sexual partners is one thing; twelve relationships, however, would seem to indicate an exceedingly fickle mindset. I doubt she's worth your time.
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More than a dozen relationships at the age of 18...that's ringing a few alarm bells to be honest. That she seems to be working her way through you friendship group is ringing a few more. I think having a few misgivings would be pretty normal - if you can't deal with it, end it. If you think you can deal with it, proceed with caution (and and STI test for her if not both of you if any of her past relationships have been sexual).
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Sloppy.. 12ths? I wouldn't out of pride.
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If you like her, go for it, but I wouldn't get too emotionally invested in the relationship if I were you. If you're the kind of guy to fall deep for girls, steer clear. I'd never go for a girl who was working her way through my mates, it's just a touch creepy and she obviously doesn't take these relationships seriously. She sounds a bit of a user
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Watch Chasing Amy by Kevin Smith and then stop your belly aching.
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Just because she's had a lot of boyfriends, doesn't mean she's slept with them all. Some of these relationships may have just been 2/3 weeks not serious at all.
Talk to her about it before you discard her; just ask her how many people she's had sex with..if it still bothers you, then move on.
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(Original post by TheBlindestPilot)
Sloppy.. 12ths? I wouldn't out of pride.
What's the difference between basketball and soccer? The ball is roughly the same size, but...
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it pretty normal to feel this way...she seems quite fickle..i'd say leave her - it'll only continue to bother you!..
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There will be people who will accept her regardless of her past so either get over it or leave her.
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