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    (Original post by clairey87)
    Well different people have different views on things
    The chances are the world isn't going to change your way, so try and adopt a more liberal attitude and respect that men need TWO sources of "income"

    And yes, I am messing around.
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    So do most men still use porn even when in a relationship?
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    Yep
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    So does it stem from insecurities rather than him actually the looking at the porn?
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    There's nothing wrong with commercial porn, by the way, if some **** doesn't mind her Mum seeing her do 3 holes filled for 100k then that's her problem. Don't watch it from elsewhere - it's exploitation and morally repugnant. If some guy watches porno in a relationship he obviously isn't getting enough. You aren't going to change his body systems so you should do one of three things: Leave and go find someone with a low sex drive, give out more or turn a blind eye (maybe it's a birthday present idea???)
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    have you thought about looking at it with him, both males and females can enjoy porn.

    yees universities don't allow porn to be accessed on their network.
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    Are you saying he watches porn whilst in the same room as you, and without asking you whether you mind or not?
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    you must be pretty whack in the sack if he likes fappin off more
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    lol af1, how can people dislike you so much?
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    (Original post by af1)
    you must be pretty whack in the sack if he likes fappin off more
    Hahahahaaa
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    no one dislikes me!? word to your mother
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    blokes watching porn in a relationship is fine, its got nothing to do with you whatsoever, Ive always watched porn whilst in a relationship, its as much to pass time/relieve boredom as anything else!
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    (Original post by imasillynarb)
    blokes watching porn in a relationship is fine, its got nothing to do with you whatsoever, Ive always watched porn whilst in a relationship, its as much to pass time/relieve boredom as anything else!
    Yeah its just part of the daily routine. You know, it gets to 11 at night nothing on TV couple of hours scouting out Internet porn.
    Don’t really see the problem its just entertainment.
    clairey you could always take some pics and vids of youself and give them to him as a present
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    af1 - reference to your rep. Word to your mother, too
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    that comment made me nearly spit my milk out.. I repped you upto only 1 red block I think
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    (Original post by af1)
    you must be pretty whack in the sack if he likes fappin off more
    lmao
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    You're right that it might be that you are upset about other things e.g the contraception injection and glandular fever, 'cause porn doesn't have to be such a big deal. It's just a bit of fun, and adds a bit of spice. Ultimately it's you he wants to actually be with.

    He should however respect that it can make you feel insecure, and he needs to reassure you. By the way, there's nothing wrong with having tiny boobs, girls can be sexy whatever their body if they are confident with it. Big boobs often look horrnedous anyway whereas tiny boobs can look very graceful. Why don't you think of the porn as something YOU might actually enjoy watching as it might turn you on as well. Especially when you can make sure your boyfriend knows how impressed you are by the bloke's body... it's not just for boys you know!! See how he likes it! Give him a taste of his own medicine.
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    My boyfriend doesn't like porn But I see it as like they are in different leagues like porn is a starter and then being with you would be the main course. Once heard it described like that ona tv lol.
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    (Original post by button16)
    My boyfriend doesn't like porn But I see it as like they are in different leagues like porn is a starter and then being with you would be the main course. Once heard it described like that ona tv lol.
    Nicely put, Button16. Anything that feeds the mind is foreplay.
    Now can we put this silly issue to rest?
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    (Original post by clairey87)
    Is it right for someone to use pornography when they are in a relationship?
    t'is fair enough. so long as they do it when other person isn't there! (dont have to hide it or anything, but if they're looking at naked internet girls in preference to naked g/f then they have problems!
 
 
 
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