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i got with this guy but now he's gone on holiday-advice? watch

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    firstly hi im new :wavey:

    ok. there was this really really goooooood looking guy i saw at the start of uni. at parties, we'd talk non stop, but didnt really see each other apart from that. anyway. i invited him out properly clubbing with our mates and finally we got togetether and had a small kiss.
    trouble is he's going on holiday tomorrow for 3 months! he says he'll email me. what do i do? is it ok to phone him up every week? or will that look too clingy?its his birthday next week as well, what should i do?
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    If he said he'll email you, wait until he does.

    If you want to speak to him and have his number then i guess there is no harm in ringing.

    If he likes you then i doubt he'll think you're clingy.

    If he doesn't like you much then he'll probably thing you are clingy.

    But there we go, can't be sure.
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    have you got his email address??
    if so, id reckon just sending him a happy birthday e-card.. or otherwise you could end up looking to clingy..and you've only just kissed for the first time?
    ps hiiii
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    Try not to ring him too much, but do ring him a few times I'd say, safer that way. Of course you will hopefully be able to tell if he enjoys the phone conversations and change how much you ring depending on that. Oh and just give him a ring on his birthday, or if you're not up to it a text. Unlucky with the timing... good luck with it though!
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    You've only kissed once?!
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    yes he's very shy. he took me home then gave me a kiss. more like a peck. its so rubbish. i offered to take him out for lunch as today was his last day he said yes, but called me this morning to cancel as he was busy packing. but he said he'd email me so...
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    don't be too clingey and make youreself hard to get: guys like a challenge :P well i do anyway!
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    (don't overdo it though cos it might have the opposite effect :P)
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    Lol normally how I'd probably do it is: I'll probably email/ring or text him now and again - but I mean, when you miss someone you're more likely to do it almost constantly... texting anyway. But I watch what sort of response I'm getting - like if the person don't email back or text back - I wait til he does before I contact him again. Or I'll wait a few days, then contact him again. And if he replies, great! - and if he doesn't, then after the second or third time, I leave him be. I wait and I wouldn't let myself contact him again until he contacts me. That way - I've reached out, but I'm not pestering the guy although I still worry sometimes if I'm being too clingy

    Although currently single so got nothing to worry about yet!
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    Dont mean 2 sound the ***** here, but im not sure he likes you like that! Sometimes it happens to the best of us!
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    Haha, how much do you wanna shag him. Hehe. Lucky guy.

    If you took him back to your room and he only gave you a peck on the cheek, chances are that he's a virgin. You'll have to take him all the way in.
 
 
 
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