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Spin The Bottle - Cheating or not?

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Would you consider a partner taking part in Spin the Bottle cheating?

I recently discovered that whilst my ex was with me he played spin the bottle and kissed a fair few girls numerous times. At the mature old age of 18 :P

He was drunk(which we all know isn;t a real excuse) but i was interested to find out how many people considered this cheating and how many people considered this harmless fun!

oh, and i mean that if you're not present at the time (and don't get told until your single :P)

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He is your ex. Why the hell do you care?
Reply 2
Hes your ex, move on, you shouldn't care.
Reply 3
never mind misread! yeh ur ex dont really matter!
Reply 4
Harmless fun :fyi:.
I've wondered this. I'd say depends on whether he enjoyed it, how into it both people were, etc.
Only if you don't watch bottleguy before it. :ninja:
Reply 7
i would say its cheating....either way he doesnt seem worth the thought
Yes. but hey he's your ex.
Reply 9
If you wern't there and playing aswell then cheating.
Reply 10
I don't think spin the bottle kissing legitimises anything, if you think kissing someone who is not your partner is cheating, then he did. Otherwise when people were caught cheating they'd just say "We were playing dares, and she dared me to have sex with her, what was I supposed to do?! She double dared me with a cherry on top! My conscience couldn't take that kind of heat"
Reply 11
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If you wern't there and playing aswell then cheating.


If you were playing does it count as swinging? :confused:
Of course it is. The fact someone put a bottle on the floor and spun it doesnt take away from the fact that he kissed other people without your knowledge or consent does it?

As much as he or others may try and justify it by saying it was 'a bit of fun' or 'just a game' you shouldnt involve yourself in those kind of things or 'games' (in my opinion) if you are in a relationship.
If you were in a relationship, why would you want to be playing a game that involved kissing others?

Not something I'd partake in if I had a bf. so imo, yes. It's cheating.
I've seen boyfriends/ girlfriends play spin the bottle when their partner was in the room, but if you didn't know, it was cheating.
Lucky you don't have to deal with the big break up now :biggrin:
Reply 15
timetokill
Of course it is. The fact someone put a bottle on the floor and spun it doesnt take away from the fact that he kissed other people without your knowledge or consent does it?

As much as he or others may try and justify it by saying it was 'a bit of fun' or 'just a game' you shouldnt involve yourself in those kind of things or 'games' (in my opinion) if you are in a relationship.


thats exactly what i thought :biggrin: x
cheating, i'd fill the bottle with nail polish remover and make the jerk drink it. See how he likes bottles then. :smile:
Reply 17
Spin the bottle was the best, I used to always pick who I wanted to kiss.
I once played with my (then) gf in the group. When we were half way into the game, i spun it and landed on her, we kept the group waiting for a while :p:. Then i spun it and landed on the short indian facial haired girl :eek3:.

Assuming it aint some dodgy kiss-strip-shag spin the bottle, then i think its just for fun. Maybe a bit immature, but who needs mature these days?
Reply 19
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If you wern't there and playing aswell then cheating.


If I was there to witness my GF doing this I'd still consider it cheating. I don't care if it's some game, you're still kissing someone else, I'll still count it as cheating.