My good friend slept with my ex Watch

Girl_Afraid23
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Do I forgive her or what?
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What is their to forgive? Ex is an ex.. Get over it.
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Why do you even care? I personally wouldn't if that happened to me. IMO seems like you've got feelings for your ex still, so talk to one/both of them.
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Yes. Its your ex?
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Nah
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if she knew that you still had strong feelings for him then i can understand why you would be angry... but its your ex, you've finished so you can't really blame her as he's not yours anymore
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He's your "ex" not your "MINE!!" just because you cant have him doesn't mean she cant.
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(Original post by lets_make_some_music)
if she knew that you still had strong feelings for him then i can understand why you would be angry... but its your ex, you've finished so you can't really blame her as he's not yours anymore
You don't date your friends X's, it's an unwritten rule. You should at the very least speak to your friend first before pursuing anything.
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Do I forgive her or what?
Speak to her and tell her how you feel, hopefully she will get it. It's probably not worth loosing a "good friend" over, but she should know never to do it again.
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I don't have feelings for him but surely its the principle?
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Depends, did she admit it to you and is she sorry.
I have a friend who that happened to, he hasn't forgiven either his ex-girlfriend or his ex-best friend for 5 years and he is still intensely resentful and has no plans to forgive.
However, this was happening while he was still going out with her.
With you however, you have to remember that he was your ex which puts your friend in the insensitive and/or thoughtless, rather than the back-stabbing, catagory.
Keep that in mind when you judge her. Either way, sleep on it.
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(Original post by Girl_Afraid23)
Do I forgive her or what?
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Like all of the sane people in this thread are saying - it's your EX. If you once found yourself attracted to him it's highly likely that some your friends, who will probably have similar tastes/likes/interests that you do will also find themselves attracted to him.

Deal with it.
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I'm sure you can forgive her. You've managed to post a whole thread on one line, if it had hurt you, you'd have been going on for ages. Don't cause drama for the sake of it.
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It depends on the kind of relationship with your ex.. why and when you split, if you still feeling anything for him and how aware she is of it all. That sort of thing.

For example, if I slept with my friend's ex who she dated for a couple of months and never really had any strong connection with, then she'd be pretty cool. If, however, I slept with her most recent ex (who she was with for 2 years and had a really messy break-up with) then she'd be pretty pissed, and I could understand that.

It all depends really.
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(Original post by Cinematographic)
You don't date your friends X's, it's an unwritten rule. You should at the very least speak to your friend first before pursuing anything.
Seconded.
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get over yourself op
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How long were they an ex?
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it depends on the way you split with him/her/it.
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I wonder how many people telling the OP to get over it would actually be that un-bothered if they were in her situation. My bet is not many.
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