should you cheat on your friends girlfriend

brasil85

My friend girlfriend who has been going out with her since the start of the year. But then she said she wanted to go for a drink with me and course i said yes thinking that her boyfriend was going to be coming but then she told me that she liked me and was all over me i have now started to see her without her boyfriend knowing . I like her alot and she told me that she cant stand him and she likes me alot . i only see it as a bit of fun. what should i do

tell her to stop cheatin firstly cause its gonna end up that u n him wont be mates nemore if he thinks ur cheatin with his girlfriend.... and tell her to put the lad outta his misery and break up.....then wait a while and you two can be together after the tension has ended xoxo

Reply 2

Harv616

9

Keep her, lose your friend
Lose her, keep your friend

Reply 3

OP

she get some kind of turn on by cheating on him . But its now becoming out of hand. I must say that i get turn on by it, its sad i know.

Reply 4

Jayjayjay

1

Personally any type of cheating is not good, it may be fun but may end up in her, him or even you getting hurt - dissolving friendships and relationships. Does she know it is only seen as a bit of fun by you?
How do you feel about the friend though?

Reply 5

OP

I cant say that i would be upset if i never spoke to him again.

Reply 6

brasil85

she get some kind of turn on by cheating on him . But its now becoming out of hand. I must say that i get turn on by it, its sad i know.

yeah u gotta put a stop till it, imagine if he caught u though..... that would be a bummer xoxo

Reply 7

Jayjayjay

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brasil85

I cant say that i would be upset if i never spoke to him again.

You both get a kick out of it, you may not like him all that much but not a pleasant situation when he does find out. Perhpas encourgae her to split up with him if she really does like you - it will only make things worse in the long term. Maybe make the messing around official or at least not whilst one of you are still in a relationship.

Reply 8

Alaric

10

brasil85

I cant say that i would be upset if i never spoke to him again.

You tell him then, I think that'll do it.

A.

Reply 9

Alaric

You tell him then, I think that'll do it.

A.

i agree if you dont think u would be upset u tell him and see what happens the girl wouldnt even talk to tyou better yet 'she'd find the love that she once had for her boyfriend right there and say you were a f***in liar' xoxo

Reply 10

OP

I might do maybe the same day that I go to uni

Reply 11

OP

she wants to try and set him up and then she can leave him, i dont think it will work somehow

Reply 12

brasil85

I might do maybe the same day that I go to uni

she'll throw it in ur face again......is it actually worth it going behind ur friends back.....ur friends been there through thick and thin and all u see is a pretty thing walking along and then thats it over....a friendship that came through the odds if u want that tell him TODAY surely.....you havent been a good friend at all doing that on him 'getting a kick' outta goin out with his girlfriend what if he found out what would u do? xoxo

Reply 13

brasil85

she wants to try and set him up and then she can leave him, i dont think it will work somehow

nah i dont think it would either and wait till her finds out who she dumped him for.....it will break him i mean it......ive seen it happen before and its not pretty xoxo

Reply 14

OP

, some of my girlfriends who know her tell me she the school bike if you get what i mean, i dont love her, yeah i like her but that all

Reply 15

brasil85

, some of my girlfriends who know her tell me she the school bike if you get what i mean, i dont love her, yeah i like her but that all

yeah i know what u mean, if shes called the school bike it says a lot about her rep and what she gets up 2.....but does ur mate love her? or is he takin her for the spin 2 :p:

xoxo

Reply 16

Ron Stoppable

brasil85

Should you cheat ...

It says it all in the title and I don't need to answer that.

Brasil85, do whatever you want, but if I were in your situation I wouldn't waste time asking lots of people for advice in the vain hope that they would justify what you have done.

I'd move on from this girl immediately. It's would not be an issue whether she found me attractive, nor even if the feeling was mutual. Put simply, I wouldn't date someone with that startling lack of integrity. There's also a conflict of interest here...

Friends are usually with you forever.

Reply 17

Hana_87

16

I would tell her to go away.

Reply 18

Ron Stoppable