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    SO i have the worlds most perfect boyfriend he treats me really well cares about me and is very understanding and i'd figured for the forseeable future things were just gonna get better , we're in diffrent universities but thats not making a diffrence to us we've done a year apart already so i figured it'd all be good .....
    BUT i've come to uni and met this guy and what else can i say but its like i'm 12 with a crush again .... i don't undserstand how i can have such mixed up messed up feelings !! I mean i feel soo guilty about these feelings i have for this guy but at the same time realllly like him . What do i do i don't even know if this guy fee;s the same anfd if he does i dunno what that means to me :s
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    I think you really need to think about what you want. Is it worth giving up the one you love for the one you like? You said yourself its just a crush and you don't know if he feels the same way...maybe you should just try and get to know this guy and develop a friendship first before you decide what you want?

    Are you really happy with your boyfriend now or do you just feel like your plodding along and its going nowhere? If your so wrapped up in this new guy then maybe your feelings towards your boyfriend have changed without you even realising it...

    I kinda understand your situation - my ex told me he was still in love with me but I'd kinda met someone else. Like you I didn't really know this new guy I just really wanted to get to know him better...but I was scared of rejecting my ex incase nothing works out with the new guy - I didn't want to make the wrong decision and be left with noone...maybe you can relate to this in some way...?
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    (Original post by FloraXoX)
    SO i have the worlds most perfect boyfriend he treats me really well cares about me and is very understanding and i'd figured for the forseeable future things were just gonna get better , we're in diffrent universities but thats not making a diffrence to us we've done a year apart already so i figured it'd all be good .....
    BUT i've come to uni and met this guy and what else can i say but its like i'm 12 with a crush again .... i don't undserstand how i can have such mixed up messed up feelings !! I mean i feel soo guilty about these feelings i have for this guy but at the same time realllly like him . What do i do i don't even know if this guy fee;s the same anfd if he does i dunno what that means to me :s
    Your lust for your boyfriend has manifested itself in a crush on this new guy. Do your best to spend as little time as possible around him, and as much time as possible with your bf. What uni does he go to?
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    he's in cardiff so its difficult to spend a lot of time with him and i live with this guy !!!
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    imo....i think you should stay with your boyfriend
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    (Original post by CreativeBetch)
    imo....i think you should stay with your boyfriend
    Reasoning ??
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    (Original post by FloraXoX)
    Reasoning ??
    Firstly, you sai it yourself, it's just a crush, u don't know if he feels the same way

    why would you want to throw away something that has stood the test of time and distance for something that you're not sure will stick...

    Answer those questions and if you feel it's worth it, go ahead...it's rili up to you..ur life
 
 
 
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