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    I'm in a bit of a muddle - I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now and we've realised that we're in love with each other but he refuses to have sex with me, even if we do something other than kiss he regrets it afterwards, saying that we're not mature enough. It's frustrating and i'm fed up of feeling guilty every time i want to show how much i care, is this an understandable reason to break up with someone or am i being really selfish?
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    It's not really love if you're bothered about something so minor. Is he a virgin, by chance?
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    your expecting to much if he dosent want to have sex then dont push him or make him feel guilty for not having it, hes oviously knows why he dosent want to have it yet and should respect his wishes.
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    oviously take some anti horny pills if your dying for a f***ck to you dont take it out on your bf
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    Did you try asking him why? Maybe he's one of those "no sex before marriage" guys.
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    Clever Boyfriend


    Withholding sex, he really is on top of his game.
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    Aww bless him. Look, if he's not ready to have sex with you, he's not ready! You can't really love him that much if you're considering leaving him over this.
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    (Original post by Anonymous)
    I'm in a bit of a muddle - I've been dating my boyfriend for 4 months now and we've realised that we're in love with each other but he refuses to have sex with me, even if we do something other than kiss he regrets it afterwards, saying that we're not mature enough. It's frustrating and i'm fed up of feeling guilty every time i want to show how much i care, is this an understandable reason to break up with someone or am i being really selfish?
    Yes, you are being really selfish.
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    How is expecting sex expecting 'too much'. It's kinda assumed once you get over 18... OP is hardly being needy, she just has needs. I'd be pretty frustrated tbh.
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    (Original post by Bubbles*de*Milo)
    I'd be pretty frustrated tbh.
    We know, Bubbles. We know. :console:
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    (Original post by Irrelevance)
    We know, Bubbles. We know. :console:

    Oh shut up, seriously. You really don't know anything.
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    respect his wished as you would expect from him
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    (Original post by Bubbles*de*Milo)
    Oh shut up, seriously. You really don't know anything.
    Well, you know what else doesn't know anything? YOUR FACE.

    Burned.
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    http://www.thestudentroom.co.uk/show....php?t=1060970

    You were made for each other.
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    (Original post by Bubbles*de*Milo)
    How is expecting sex expecting 'too much'. It's kinda assumed once you get over 18... OP is hardly being needy, she just has needs. I'd be pretty frustrated tbh.
    Bet you're a virgin
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    (Original post by Irrelevance)
    Well, you know what else doesn't know anything? YOUR FACE.

    Burned.

    No, really. Shut up for once. Don't speak as though you actually know anything about me.
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    If OP was a guy they would be getting so much more stick right now. Strange huh
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    Get him drunk and voila!
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    (Original post by technik)
    Bet you're a virgin

    Uh, if you say so.
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    (Original post by Consilio Et Animis)
    Get him drunk and voila!
    O.o

    Thats cruel! :gah:
 
 
 
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