Quick question

Thankfully, I've carefully concealed my identity, but I'd be really embarassed about admitting this in "real life".

Basically I've been caught LOADS of times staring at girls, particularly their breasts. - Usually they just stare back and I sort of blush. This looks really bad especially when I'm supposed to be acting in a professional capacity - I do a lot of work with the students' union, represeting the uni etc.

Is there any obvious advice you guys would be able to kindly give to help me be more suttle. - I'm sure virtually all guys do this but they all seem to have a knack for discression. Thanks!

Reply 1

Geeeza

First loook at the girls eyes, if shes not looking then have a quick glare at her breasts..., lol it works..., but you must be quick with your eyes dont stare too long otherwise u mite get caught.., lol

Reply 2

Book

OP

9

Thanks mate!

That sounds really obvious but it is a good strategy and I can see it working! lol
Please keep the responses coming but I was also wondering, why should I (or anyone) have to be discrete? Surely I am just appreciating her for what she is? Why can it be considered bad?

(Please note I often like playing devil's advocate. Please forgive me!)

Reply 3

Hana_87

16

Look @ their bum's instead, then they wont see you :biggrin:

Reply 4

amo1

14

quick look up down, talk for a bit, say look over there and just sit back and stare :biggrin:

Reply 5

girlafraid

1

people should be discrete about looking a women's breasts because technically they're "private parts", i guess. and it just... really bothers a lot of girls to have someone looking at their chest rather than their face whilst speaking to you.

i agree with hana_87-- just stare at her backside. it's almost the same thing, yes? just on the other side :biggrin:

Reply 6

eurasianfeline

13

to be honest, i think most girls would be annoyed if they caught you staring at their breasts. unless they have exceptionally huge breasts or a cleavage that's screaming "look here" behind a low cut top, i don't really see why you would be staring at them.

if you must, then do it discretely please. by that i mean don't stare, just take a quick glance when they're not noticing. and please don't start looking when you're talking to that person. her eyes are on her face, not her breasts. :smile:

Reply 7

Trousers

11

How about you just don't stare at their breasts? A chap your age has seen plenty of breasts, and they're all pretty much the same - get over it.

I'm sure if someone was staring at your willy all the time, you'd feel a bit uncomfortable.

Reply 8

Amzybaby24

1

why not quickly n stealthy take a phot then u can stare as much as u like :P

(yes i ama girl)

Dark sunglasses.

I so know what you are talking about. The pain is shared by all of us.

Reply 11

gemgeroo

girlafraid

people should be discrete about looking a women's breasts because technically they're "private parts", i guess. and it just... really bothers a lot of girls to have someone looking at their chest rather than their face whilst speaking to you.

i agree with hana_87-- just stare at her backside. it's almost the same thing, yes? just on the other side :biggrin:

i dont think it that their private some girls take pride in there figures actually i dont know any that don't i think it's more that the attention isn't on the effort they've put into looking good rather it on whats already there. lets face it girls like eye contact rather than guys talking to there chest! lol
:smile:

i agree with feline

Reply 12

BlackHawk

17

Book

Thankfully, I've carefully concealed my identity, but I'd be really embarassed about admitting this in "real life".

Basically I've been caught LOADS of times staring at girls, particularly their breasts. - Usually they just stare back and I sort of blush. This looks really bad especially when I'm supposed to be acting in a professional capacity - I do a lot of work with the students' union, represeting the uni etc.

Is there any obvious advice you guys would be able to kindly give to help me be more suttle. - I'm sure virtually all guys do this but they all seem to have a knack for discression. Thanks!

kingslaw?

BlackHawk

kingslaw?

oh...kingy is finally useful!! :rofl:

his first contribution to TSR!! :biggrin:

Reply 15

twiga

15

BlackHawk

kingslaw?

hehehe could well be :p:

Reply 16

Gwen

1

Trousers

How about you just don't stare at their breasts? A chap your age has seen plenty of breasts, and they're all pretty much the same - get over it.

I'm sure if someone was staring at your willy all the time, you'd feel a bit uncomfortable.

Yes! so very true

Reply 17

khil

15

Just don't stare! You shouldn't be staring in any case.

It's considered bad - not too sure why but I'd imagine it gives the impression you're after their body and not their person, which is insulting. It is also freaky because you start wondering what that perv wants. And generally speaking the breasts are a "private" area.

I dunno if anyone stares at me but if they have I haven't noticed lol - my ex did very openly admit that was the first thing he looked at when we first met... :rolleyes: