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    I've got a really twisted 'fetish' if you can call it that and it's making me very worried. I'm a hetero female and I'm attracted sexually to men my age but when I masturbate I don't just imagine them. I have also tended to fantasise about older men.

    However, it's not just older men but older men with younger women. Like teenagers or early twenties. A common one is an old teacher and a young female pupil. By old I'm talking 40s, 50s here. I don't fantasise that I am the girl but I just sort of play the scenario in my head if you see what I mean. Like watching a porno I guess.

    Anyway it gets worse. I've sometimes even imagined its a father and daughter type scenario. Now I'll get this straight: i've never ever fantasised about my own dad and that makes me feel completely sick. However, the fact I have fantasised about these imaginary people in a incest situation makes me think I must be severely twisted with unresolved 'daddy issues'. The reason it has turned me on is because its so forbidden I think, even more so than a teacher-pupil relationship. Still, it's actually making me incredibly anxious. I realise that I must sound like a freak and I'm sure I'll get shouts of 'troll' in the forum but this is completely genuine.

    I'm expecting a barrage of insults but just hoping someone on the forum can give me some helpful advice.
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    A lot of people have weird and some could say 'twisted' fetishes. I think there is a thread on here somewhere with quite a few strange ones...:p:

    You have made a clear distinction with an imaginary fantasy and reality and don't seem to have any kind of weird issue with your Dad. There isn't anything wrong with you, tbh so don't worry about it Everyone has fetishes and fantasies, it's normal :top:
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    (Original post by Anonymous)

    I'm expecting a barrage of insults but just hoping someone on the forum can give me some helpful advice.
    I've had that before and I'm female. You're not the only one. I think everyones thought something that's considered a little strange before and that is normal, you're not harming anyone by doing it and it's only fantasy. If you're worried about it and want someone to talk to feel free to PM me or post here. I'd rather not talk too much about it here though. Was going to post anon but then I didn't think I would be much help to you if I did.
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    Considering the rather large amount of porn websites dealing with older/younger fetishes, I'd say you're not alone :P:
 
 
 
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