when is it too late?

ok so im leaving college soon, two weeks actually, and there is this girl in college.

i liked her for ages and then i found out she like me but i was stupid and did nothing, i messed her about a bit.
recently (last few weeks) she seems to have moved on and there is another guy they arent going out but i think they will be soon.

thats very brief but basicaly i am now thinking i should tell her how i feel and apologise for being such an idiot this year or have i left it too late?

thanks

Reply 1

hel437

apologise! its better to apologise than to not apologise. :smile:

you never know it may be worth your while x

Reply 2

Rainy

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nic_k_s

ok so im leaving college soon, two weeks actually, and there is this girl in college.

i liked her for ages and then i found out she like me but i was stupid and did nothing, i messed her about a bit.
recently (last few weeks) she seems to have moved on and there is another guy they arent going out but i think they will be soon.

thats very brief but basicaly i am now thinking i should tell her how i feel and apologise for being such an idiot this year or have i left it too late?

thanks

Apologise, talk, don't expect anything out of it. Use the opportunity to tie up the threads, and maybe keep her number while you're at it? :cool:

Reply 3

Spenceman_

It's *never* too late, but Raindance said it: - "don't expect anything out of it".

0

When it's born.

Take advice from London 2012's song:

What have you done today to make you feel proud?

It's never too late to try
What have you done today to make you feel proud?
You could be so many people if you make that break for freedom
What have you done today to make you feel proud?

Reply 6

nic_k_s

OP

thanks
il say sorry once her exams are out of the way

Reply 7

Ziggy Stardust

nic_k_s

ok so im leaving college soon, two weeks actually, and there is this girl in college.

i liked her for ages and then i found out she like me but i was stupid and did nothing, i messed her about a bit.
recently (last few weeks) she seems to have moved on and there is another guy they arent going out but i think they will be soon.

thats very brief but basicaly i am now thinking i should tell her how i feel and apologise for being such an idiot this year or have i left it too late?

thanks

If you want her that bad, you'd make it your business to go to her, apologise for messing her about, and tell her you want to make things right.

If she actually does like you in return and is willing to forgive you she'll accept and you'll be laughin'.

If not, unlucky, and serves you right for being silly in the first place.

Reply 8

TheVlad

ah forget about her. If you want to apologise, do. But don't ask her out... if you apologise at the start of teh relationship, she'll own you.

Reply 9

Ron Stoppable

14

It's never to late to try.

If knocked back. Persevere subtly.

Reply 10

twiga

15

Better late than never, but yu really need to go to town and be genuine in your apologies.

Reply 11

Ron Stoppable

14

With apologies, it's easy to be genuine, even if you aren't totally sorry in your own mind. Remember what you learnt at primary school: treat other people as you would like them to treat you.

when is it too late?

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