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Breath fresh air into this relationship

I'm a bit worried. My girlfriend which is what she is in a sense now and I haven't really done any couply things for ages now and we are reallynow just beating around the bush. We were at near-sexual relationship and that was alot for me and I really REALLY like her so much but it just feels like it has drifted to oblivion
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When I text her, the texts aren't coming back as much and her dad's always on teh housefone. It' s ****ing annoying. ****ing exams did this. Do you think giving her a full phonecall which I have't managed in a while would be great as we loved doing that but it stopped when she got the internet!!! I won't let this one go as it means to much to me for some reason.

Cheers, just needed to say that to people, Daibhidh.
Reply 1
If she has the Internet can't you chat on MSN? I know it's not the same but it'll keep the communication going.
Reply 2
ok, and breathe
Reply 3
MSN is the problem, it forces DOWN communication to a level where it is utter *****.
Reply 4
Daibhidh
MSN is the problem, it forces DOWN communication to a level where it is utter *****.


I understand, it's really hard sometimes. Have you two tried doing new things together? It's meant to be the secret to a successful long-lasting relationship :smile:
Reply 5
Is she busy concentrating on exams did u say? If so these will be over soon and hopefully things will get back to as they were. Or your alternative is to ask her why she's being more distant with you and see what she says.
Reply 6
I think you should give her a break until after exams. Even if you feel you're drifting apart now, she'll thank you for it and then you can properly hang out after.
Loopz
I think you should give her a break until after exams. Even if you feel you're drifting apart now, she'll thank you for it and then you can properly hang out after.


Spot on.

Have a break. Have a kitkat. Get in touch after you've had a chance to reassess your immediate goals and recharged your batteries.