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Is there something wrong with this??

Ok basically roughly a week ago or so, I got really friendly with a girl who is half greek.

She's realllllllly appealing(sexually) to most guys, and always wears skirts and hardly anything on around town... I went up and spoke to her with the intent of being friends(she is out of my league), but it went further when we played a game of monopoly in my room...... We made a compromise to say that if I won, I could bet her to do anything she wanted. If she won, she betted me to run around with my boxers on, or something.

Anyway, I won and I betted her to kiss me...... So we kissed and we ended up kissing in my room for a couple of hours.... I sucked her ummmmm... Chest and we had a good time.....

However, this is the crunch point.... When she started rubbing herself against me and opening her legs, I couldn't ..... get it up... What is wrong with me???? I was a lil nervous too...... Does anyone else get this?
When she did this I was like "I dunno, one of my parents are in" and she said" Don't worry, nothing's gonna happen"

But still!!!!

I just like her as friends and I never thought for once instance this would happen.

PS: I had a great time :biggrin:
Reply 1
were you nervous?
It was probably nerves and shock! When you think something wont happen and it does, the body can freeze up. and i spose if a parent was in, that could have something to do with it. I hope you and her, managed to, overcome the er, issue! Let us know eh
Reply 3
maybe deep down you were thinking it wasn't actually a good idea.
Reply 4
Damn the replies on this board are quick! I go away for 5 minutes and I come back and all these people have replied. :smile: Cheers..

Anyway, no, I wasn't nervous.....(maybe a tiny bit) I just didn't wanna stick it in...if ya know what I mean.... I didn't have a condom or anything.... I just didn't wanna have sex with her......

Ironically I liked her more as a friend... which we have both come to a firm conclusion of now....
Reply 5
yay i was right?
why did you ask, you already have your answer!
however bear in mind: practise makes perfect
Reply 6
yeah but I mean she was gorgeous!
Reply 7
HyperBowl
Damn the replies on this board are quick! I go away for 5 minutes and I come back and all these people have replied. :smile: Cheers..

Anyway, no, I wasn't nervous.....(maybe a tiny bit) I just didn't wanna stick it in...if ya know what I mean.... I didn't have a condom or anything.... I just didn't wanna have sex with her......

Ironically I liked her more as a friend... which we have both come to a firm conclusion of now....


Then fair enough - you don't have to have sex with someone just because you get carried away. Especially if you didn't have a condom. Everyone gets nervous sometimes.

Walshie, you are a fool.
Reply 8
You should masturbate less. Not that there is anything wrong with it. But you know... you can only get so many shots in a day. Coupled with nervousness its a killer.
Nicely done hyper!
Reply 10
TheVlad
You should masturbate less. Not that there is anything wrong with it. But you know... you can only get so many shots in a day. Coupled with nervousness its a killer.


Yeah Hyper you should definitely masturbate less :smile:
Reply 11
HyperBowl
...we have both come to a firm conclusion...

:rofl:

congratulations:wink:

sorry:frown:
Reply 12
If you can't get hard then that's the biggest clue that you're not ready for sex. You're lettin the side down :P

Among other things hehe.
Reply 13
HyperBowl
Damn the replies on this board are quick! I go away for 5 minutes and I come back and all these people have replied. :smile: Cheers..

Anyway, no, I wasn't nervous.....(maybe a tiny bit) I just didn't wanna stick it in...if ya know what I mean.... I didn't have a condom or anything.... I just didn't wanna have sex with her......

Ironically I liked her more as a friend... which we have both come to a firm conclusion of now....


She's just saying you're better off as friends to make you feel better. Missed an opportunity there :biggrin:
Reply 14
just because she's gorgeous doesn't mean you have to be attracted to her. you can think she is attractive without finding her attractive. it's also probably nerves. even if you do fancy her, that doesn't mean you can always get it up. in fact with some guys, the more they fancy a girl, the more nervous they are.
to be honest, i think that you earned a lot of respect from her by doing this, she is probably thinking, 'he isn't like other guys' and i got a feeling she'll want to see you even more now!
Nope, nothing wrong, if you felt you didn't want to do it (plus feeling like your not worth her) it's not gonna be easy! Well if you're SURE you just want to be friends (rather than perhaps that just being the easier option) I'm glad it's all sorted for you, but she now probably thinks you are sooooo sexy. :biggrin:

Sounds a lot like girl I know actually, everything except for the doing 'stuff', *sigh*.

Oh, and as soon as she came back to your room on her own, you should have known something was gonna happen!
Reply 17
had u relieved urself in the previous 24 hours