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    (Original post by bricktops)
    Which ever boys say personality are lying. Boys will first approach attrative girls over uglier ones, then personality counts. Its a way of filtering out the girls.
    i agree. after all, none of us can walk into a room and look at people and automatically know their personality.

    i went out with a guy with great personality but sadly, not my type- tall, pale, thin. it was great being with him and talking to him but in real life, kissing and stuff, i wansnt particularly enjoying it. at least with a stunner, you can use the imagination!! i kissed a fit but playa type and it was great!
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    yeh but did he have a personality? at all?
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    (Original post by sm0273)
    yeh well, u ever seen "ur face or mine" with j carr?

    they used to have the public voting who was the nicest out of the couple, that was good.

    i think there is an answer to who the general public think is nicer in a couple so its not big headed to say im better looking to most people than my gf. but that dosent matter at the end of the day does it.
    Exactly. I know that in general, as a ginger girl, I'm not considered attractive by most people. My boyfriend is tall and dark and well built and so he is. On the other hand, the few people who do like me tend to really really like me!

    However, what the general consensus is pretty irrelevant. As far as I'm concerned, a relationship involves 2 people, not the whole world!

    Cxx
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    (Original post by kinza75)
    what do boys consider important, looks or personality, or something else? what if a girl was ugly but really nice?
    I think for most people looks are really imortant for getting a guy interested to begin with. But yo'll be supprised loads of guys have specialist tastes!

    Then you get to know each other and personality becomes more important for keeping the relationship going, so I guess both are equaly important.

    Soz. if this has been said already, I didn't read all the posts
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    (Original post by ciara)
    Exactly. I know that in general, as a ginger girl, I'm not considered attractive by most people. My boyfriend is tall and dark and well built and so he is. On the other hand, the few people who do like me tend to really really like me!

    However, what the general consensus is pretty irrelevant. As far as I'm concerned, a relationship involves 2 people, not the whole world!

    Cxx
    Same here, most people fined me average, not very attractive really but once you get someone to see past that then they really like me, wierd huh!
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    Definately looks, nice -> friend, looks -> sex, both -> relationship, and I'd say sex is closer to a relationship than friendship, not by far but enough
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    (Original post by ciara)
    Exactly. I know that in general, as a ginger girl, I'm not considered attractive by most people. My boyfriend is tall and dark and well built and so he is. On the other hand, the few people who do like me tend to really really like me!

    However, what the general consensus is pretty irrelevant. As far as I'm concerned, a relationship involves 2 people, not the whole world!

    Cxx
    good for you i prefer to call it red head!
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    I met this woman today at the bus, she sat in front of me, oh my she was gorgeous and my she smells good... i love her dark brownish wavy hair and her skin complexion. She smiles like an angel, an hoo boy i have a good feeling that shes got a good personality...

    She came down at the same bus stop as i did, that was the first time ive seen her down that stop or ride that bus, i was about to ask her name but naah, i find it quite a bit offensive to just say hi to sum1 I dont know... I want things to go naturally.. and lots of my frends call me a sore loser but hey...

    Wellp, thats prolly the last time ill be seeing her
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    Haven't bothered to read the thread... but I'd say looks to initialise the interest, and personality to develop a proper attraction and relationship.
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    Personality most definitely, but looks just make the person even better

    But I think the point we should be making is that everyone likes different things in the looks department. A lot of guys want someone "stunningly beautiful" but personally, stunning good looks don't do anything for me. Cuteness, and prettyness is more important to me. Our perception of beauty is as individual as we are. So just because you might think that you're ugly or a lot less prettier than someone else doesn't mean that you are.

    In someone's eyes, you're perfect

    A good example is my cousin - shes about 30 stone... absolute whale. Shes getting married to someone who loves her personality and her body too. Book made a good comment about how many guys have "speciality tastes". This is evident here
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    Indeed Mad Vlad, great minds think alike...

    Just take a look at the wide coverage of internet pornography, a lot of which is pay per view - enough people must like it or it wouldn't be profitable putting it up! - I know I like much of it!

    Cheers
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    i think its important to have a balance of both, becuase you could be pug ugly but your boyfiend may think your a stunner, its all a matter of opinion!
 
 
 
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