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    (Original post by God86)
    Yep lads, that old chestnut.

    Is premature ejaculation really a problem?
    How many people does it affect?
    How early is premature?
    How best to stop it?

    Girls: How much of a problem is it?

    Discuss...

    If anybody says stop it with circumcision i will shoot them..


    How to stop it.. If it has only ever happened once to you I wouldnt worry about it.. If its a recuring thingh then its a little bit more of a problem. there no physical illness that casues it, its more of a "too sensitive thing" or you just rush and get all excited .. sorry I cant be much help

    I know alot of guys usually get that if its the first time they have had sex, because they are not use to that kind of stimulation.
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    what a question! cant really say it's much of a problem with me, only having sex with men and all but arent you supposed to tug on your balls to slow yourself down... read that or heard it somewhere
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    (Original post by thekillersrock)
    what a question! cant really say it's much of a problem with me, only having sex with men and all but arent you supposed to tug on your balls to slow yourself down... read that or heard it somewhere

    that sounds brutal,

    How about discussing it with your girlfriend?
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    i thought it was a stress related thing?
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    Supposedly squeezing the top will slow you down and reduce the risk of exploding straight away.
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    I'm not going to pretend I am very knowledgable about how to stop it, but make sure you don't get too excited too soon and go slowly. It could be just something that stops happening once you're more used to that kind of stimulation.

    From a girl's perspective, haven't ever really had it happen, but I really wouldn't mind it happening once in a while, in fact I'd take it as a compliment that he got that excited over me! But if he didn't make sure I was erm, satisfied in other ways when he did come early, or it was happening every time, I would get pretty frustrated.

    As for when is too soon, well, you can just kinda tell. If you haven't had any time to build up to a climax, then yeah that's too soon.

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    There was an article in the guardian about it.

    They've developed a drug that can increase the period prior to ejaculation. Has varying results, but generally works.
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    (Original post by Chiefect)
    that sounds brutal,

    How about discussing it with your girlfriend?
    :rofl: READ THE POST :rolleyes:
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    maybe the first comment was directed at me and the second at the roiginal poster or whoever has the problem! i hope so or soebody wasnt paying attention - it's not brutal i dont think its not like a thing u do really hard just when ur nearly... y'know, ur balls go in and pulling on them slows ya down or so i heard/slash read
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    (Original post by thekillersrock)
    maybe the first comment was directed at me and the second at the roiginal poster or whoever has the problem! i hope so or soebody wasnt paying attention - it's not brutal i dont think its not like a thing u do really hard just when ur nearly... y'know, ur balls go in and pulling on them slows ya down or so i heard/slash read
    I was refering to the original thread starter "talk to your girlfriends about it"
    As the other guy only has sex with males, so that couldn apply to him.

    maybe you didnt understand my post Trigger?
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    maybe if you used the quoting option properly then there would have been no confusion would there?
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    now now children lets focus on the issue at hand
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    lol ok ok ok
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    no ones going to make an innuendo about "issue at hand"?
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    i was going to but decided that being 18 meant you had to be growed up
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    no way! i dont want to be grown up - if thats the case i have only *counts* 3 days until i have to stop being immature - im gonna have to get busy!

    pooh! bum! willy! smelly head!
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    err i remember from first my first experiences, the trick was to breath deeply, and pull out and use your fingers for a little if you feel you're gonna lose it. If you're talking about a recurring problem, then i don't have an answer
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    I think the best tip is to slow right down before you feel you're about to blow! Can't offer much more advice, sorry!
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    as a girl, i cant say that i have experienced this problem (lol :P) BUT from my perspective i guess i would say that it wouldn't really matter that much unless it was happening constantly and i was being left unsatisified... still i wouldn't dump my boyfriend over it lol!
 
 
 
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