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Im in love with a girl.....but cant concentrate on my studies!

OK so i met this girl around a month ago and we are the perfect match we know we wont ever find anyone else and shes perfect and we are mad about each other
the only problem is that i cant concentrate on my a2 studies and i have exams in january
i cant just forget about her because shes on my mind all the time
people will say forget her and concentrate on your studies but i know for a fact i cant let her go shes too special i wont find anyone like her!
so i turn to TSR and hope someone can solve my problem today!
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Reply 1
Screw her, and read a maths book at the same time? Win-win imo.
Reply 2
Also i want to go to a university near her because i want to be able to see her more often!
Reply 3
Please someone i need honest and answers that will actually help me!
Reply 4
Rubgish
Screw her, and read a maths book at the same time? Win-win imo.


sex would have to be quite crap if he can conctrate on reading at the same time :p:
has she not got these tests to?
and whats an A2 .... a level or something? :smile:
Reply 7
Please guys this isnt making me feel better
i just feel in love 24/7 and i cant do anything else
she feels the same way but she doesnt have exams!
Reply 8
Look, you have one chance to make a difference to your life re your studies. You must concentrate, no matter what you think chances are she wont be the one you end up with and if she cares for you the way you do about her then she will understand that your studies are important and you need to work to get a good job to pay for all those lovely things she will want, so you wont lose her !

If she doesn't understand, then you will have to wonder whether she IS the one. Let's face it, how do you know its not just lust anyway, difficult to tell

Don't mess up, study , because you sure as hell wont want to do the year again or get a crap job
well i think you should just have days to yourself where you revise and study and then see her at like night and stuff cause my friend did exactly the same as you did but chose him over revising she came out with trhe crappist results ever... and there not even goin out anymore so just think like whats gonna help you more in the future
You should talk to her!

May be something like this can give her a hint:
" Look, I really like you, I am confused but you have occupied for quite a part of my life. But my heart is half devoted to you, and another half to my future...." May be you can think of longer sentences?

You may consider study a common subject together with her. Try to listen to her complaints about schoolworks, making jokes at despicable and mean teacher.

Just give more information and see what can I help you, my friend!
You know what I fear? I fear that your infatuation is just temporary, a month later who know, you may accuse yourself for being so foolish to put all your brain power in a girl, while she's not the one you have thought of. Why don't you try to re-examine your own feelings for her, you know.
Reply 11
Anonymous
well i think you should just have days to yourself where you revise and study and then see her at like night and stuff cause my friend did exactly the same as you did but chose him over revising she came out with trhe crappist results ever... and there not even goin out anymore so just think like whats gonna help you more in the future


Exactly so, very few relationships last at this age anyway to be honest I imagine, but you are stuck with your results. I have a boyfriend and I am studying, learn to juggle :smile:
Reply 12
madzerenzo
Look, you have one chance to make a difference to your life re your studies. You must concentrate, no matter what you think chances are she wont be the one you end up with and if she cares for you the way you do about her then she will understand that your studies are important and you need to work to get a good job to pay for all those lovely things she will want, so you wont lose her !

If she doesn't understand, then you will have to wonder whether she IS the one. Let's face it, how do you know its not just lust anyway, difficult to tell

Don't mess up, study , because you sure as hell wont want to do the year again or get a crap job

I just dunno how to get her off my mind though
just do her and she will be out of your mind forever
Reply 14
I need some advice from someone in the same position
i need to learn how to juggle both!
Reply 15
madzerenzo
Exactly so, very few relationships last at this age anyway to be honest I imagine, but you are stuck with your results. I have a boyfriend and I am studying, learn to juggle :smile:

Please give me tips etc on how to keep it balanced
Reply 16
z332008
I need some advice from someone in the same position
i need to learn how to juggle both!


It's not rocket science! Work on Mon/Tues see her Wed work on Thurs see her Fri and so on.

Just DO IT, trust me if you dont you WILL regret it !! :yes:
Reply 17
and also is it worth moving to a uni near her because il be able to see her moree
Reply 18
madzerenzo
It's not rocket science! Work on Mon/Tues see her Wed work on Thurs see her Fri and so on.

Just DO IT, trust me if you dont you WILL regret it !! :yes:

Listen its not the fact i dont see her
its just shes on my mind 24/7 whether i see her or dont i mentally cant focus on studying
Reply 19
It's easier for me he is also studying so we work together sometimes. But I dont see him all the time and we do love each other .

Just get some perspective on this. You need your exams to be good to get into university , it's a tough competition. So get out those books and concentrate.

look in a couple of weeks the novelty " I cant concentrate as I can only think of her " will have worn off a bit anyway

Dont mess up, it's important !