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    oh god ive done it again

    i came into school today just to see my boyfriend (my exams have finished) and we agreed to spend the whole day together untill the bus goes.
    (so then he can revise the rest of the week)

    he keeps saying that he never said he would be here for the whole day.but im certain he didn't say anything along those lines. i mean ive made a huge effort to get here and see him.

    (and i dont wanna be un-supportive of his revision)

    but we ended up having a huge disagreement and he stormed off to his lesson. im really upset as he just left me like that without trying to make up.

    I dunno what to do next, he deff said last weekend he would see me all day and hes accusing me of being really horrible and insensitive. When all along i thought those were the plans

    it wouldnt be a problem if i could get home, but i have to wait for the bus and theres nothing to do here.

    i dunno what to do when he gets back ?

    love a v upset cazzi...
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    (Original post by Cazzi_Bear)
    oh god ive done it again

    i came into school today just to see my boyfriend (my exams have finished) and we agreed to spend the whole day together untill the bus goes.
    (so then he can revise the rest of the week)

    he keeps saying that he never said he would be here for the whole day.but im certain he didn't say anything along those lines. i mean ive made a huge effort to get here and see him.

    (and i dont wanna be un-supportive of his revision)

    but we ended up having a huge disagreement and he stormed off to his lesson. im really upset as he just left me like that without trying to make up.

    I dunno what to do next, he deff said last weekend he would see me all day and hes accusing me of being really horrible and insensitive. When all along i thought those were the plans

    it wouldnt be a problem if i could get home, but i have to wait for the bus and theres nothing to do here.

    i dunno what to do when he gets back ?

    love a v upset cazzi...
    Huggles :hugs:
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    (Original post by bohogirlie)
    Huggles :hugs:
    thankoo.........i hate arguements
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    BTW, did you want any advice to that? It just seemed like you wanted to get it off your chest.

    What i would say for advice is don't worry, its probably a stressful time for him with exams (i know it is with me!!) and he probably just wants to do well. I expect he'll apoligize soon!
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    Well, what else sensible can you do except have a calm talk about it?
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    (Original post by bohogirlie)
    BTW, did you want any advice to that? It just seemed like you wanted to get it off your chest.

    What i would say for advice is don't worry, its probably a stressful time for him with exams (i know it is with me!!) and he probably just wants to do well. I expect he'll apoligize soon!
    yeh i did kinda need to get if off my chest...and a bit of advice cuz im upset.

    thanks 4 being here!
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    (Original post by F. Poste)
    Well, what else sensible can you do except have a calm talk about it?
    the bf dont do calm when stressed!
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    (Original post by Cazzi_Bear)
    yeh i did kinda need to get if off my chest...and a bit of advice cuz im upset.

    thanks 4 being here!
    Thats ok.

    *Huggles again* :hugs:
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    (Original post by Cazzi_Bear)
    the bf dont do calm when stressed!
    Just leave him to calm down for a while then, theres no point making it worse.
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    (Original post by bohogirlie)
    Thats ok.

    *Huggles again* :hugs:
    yeh big huggles men eh? say one thing and mean another!
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    well it should be fine but if it carries on get rid and sample the delights of girl on girl action!
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    im sure hes calming now right now in his lesson.....hopefully....
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    (Original post by thekillersrock)
    well it should be fine but if it carries on get rid and sample the delights of girl on girl action!
    lol u know me too well. i wish lol :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by thekillersrock)
    well it should be fine but if it carries on get rid and sample the delights of girl on girl action!
    :eek:

    Typical male thing to say :rolleyes:
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    (Original post by bohogirlie)
    :eek:

    Typical male thing to say :rolleyes:
    very......lol.......

    just because im bi! lol.

    so predictable!
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    I haven't read a thread about a previous disagreement, but every couple has disagrements and minsunderstandings. I don't know who's fault it is - whether you didn't make it clear you wanted to spend the whole day with him or if he just changed his mind.

    However seeing as hes still got exams and is problably under a fair bit of stress which could explain why he didn't try and make up. I would just try and talk to him (when hes not busy or has to run off for a lesson) and explain that you thought you were meeting up for the whole day - but let him know if he can't do that thats ok.

    I'm not suggesting you're wrong or being insensitive, just that he's probably stressed out and needs you to be supportive by not arguing with him. The most important things is to talk it over and try not to get upset - that's when little diasgreements become big agruments.
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    (Original post by loftx)
    I haven't read a thread about a previous disagreement, but every couple has disagrements and minsunderstandings. I don't know who's fault it is - whether you didn't make it clear you wanted to spend the whole day with him or if he just changed his mind.

    However seeing as hes still got exams and is problably under a fair bit of stress which could explain why he didn't try and make up. I would just try and talk to him (when hes not busy or has to run off for a lesson) and explain that you thought you were meeting up for the whole day - but let him know if he can't do that thats ok.

    I'm not suggesting you're wrong or being insensitive, just that he's probably stressed out and needs you to be supportive by not arguing with him. The most important things is to talk it over and try not to get upset - that's when little diasgreements become big agruments.

    thanks thats good advice....

    i can never think what the right thing is to do, by myself. this is why i love tsr so much!

    ill see what happenes wen he gets back in a hour.
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    Just so ya'll know. we sorted things out and everythings back to normal

    thanks everyone!
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    Exams are a really stressful time for most people, I'm sure hes not intentionally being a ****.
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    (Original post by imasillynarb)
    Exams are a really stressful time for most people, I'm sure hes not intentionally being a ****.
    yeh i know........:rolleyes:
 
 
 
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