Why me? [crush on older guy]

Oh god I have a crush on this guy in post 16 he is leaving soon and i want to tell him how i feel but cant a because i havent got the guts and b i have a bf and c because he is 3 years older than me :frown:

im meeting up with him in a coupple of weeks (poss) and have his msn addy but he is hardly ever online i hardly even see him much because he has exams. what shall i do shall i tell him or not? please help! and how do i go about making first impretions (signs) good?

Reply 1

*starry_eyed_*

14

urm... u have a boyfriend

Reply 2

Devil Bunny

OP

I know but its going a bit rocky at the moment as his mum HATES me :frown:

Reply 3

clairey87

1

All relationships have rocky patches,,,it's only natural

Reply 4

*starry_eyed_*

14

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sorry i can't really help, all relationships have their rough patches... maybe you like this other guy cos of the rough patch

Reply 5

clairey87

1

Yes, don't throw your relationship away unless it really really is that bad

Reply 6

Devil Bunny

OP

Maybe im not sure :frown:

Reply 7

*starry_eyed_*

14

give it time un and talk to yr boyf. communication is the key a successful relationship

Reply 8

hippieglitter

19

clairey87

All relationships have rocky patches,,,it's only natural

Yeah all relationships have bad times you come out the other end and will be all the stronger for it unless you do what i did (come out the other end, get drunk and cheat). Don't try it.

Reply 9

*starry_eyed_*

14

Ant93

Yeah all relationships have bad times you come out the other end and will be all the stronger for it unless you do what i did (come out the other end, get drunk and cheat). Don't try it.

not a good move! :smile:

Reply 10

bohogirlie

3

Dragoness

Oh god I have a crush on this guy in post 16 he is leaving soon and i want to tell him how i feel but cant a because i havent got the guts and b i have a bf and c because he is 3 years older than me :frown:

im meeting up with him in a coupple of weeks (poss) and have his msn addy but he is hardly ever online i hardly even see him much because he has exams. what shall i do shall i tell him or not? please help! and how do i go about making first impretions (signs) good?

I'm confused :confused:

Wheres post 16? Or is this me just being really dumb? :confused:

Reply 11

*starry_eyed_*

14

bohogirlie

I'm confused :confused:

Wheres post 16? Or is this me just being really dumb? :confused:

i think post 16 means college or uni ???

Reply 12

clairey87

1

Yeah, the few problems my boyfriend and I have encountered have only made our relationship 10 times stronger and made us appreciate each other more!

Reply 13

Poobah

clairey87

Yeah, the few problems my boyfriend and I have encountered have only made our relationship 10 times stronger and made us appreciate each other more!

I totally agree. Also even if you weren't in a relationship I'm not sure that it would be a good idea, he's three years older than you and at this stage in life that's a significant age gap. If he's about to go on to post 16 then it's unlikely he'd be right for you.

My advice would be to focus your attention on problems within your current relationship, have you tried asking why your boyfriends mum doesn't like you? Perhaps you can work things out with her?

good luck xxx

Reply 14

kriztinae

14

how old are you? 3 years isnt that much older when ur say 17/18 or older. well i dont think so anyway
if ur meeting up with him get to know him properly first before u say or do something. see if hes worth messing up ur relationship with ur boyfriend.

Reply 15

Everdawn

13

yeah, one of my friends bf's is 10 years older than she is.

Reply 16

Logan

4

age does not matter.. but hey, u have to discuss matters with ure bf if u want to tell the other guy about what you feel.. or things could get messy

Reply 17

kriztinae

14

Everdawn

yeah, one of my friends bf's is 10 years older than she is.

my parents have 11 years difference.
how old is your friend?

Reply 18

Everdawn

13

18 bf is 28. Ive only met the BF once, he was...er.. not what I expected. But shes happy so thats all that matters!

Reply 19

Xx Tomásíona - Mháire xX

14

Dragoness

Oh god I have a crush on this guy in post 16 he is leaving soon and i want to tell him how i feel but cant a because i havent got the guts and b i have a bf and c because he is 3 years older than me :frown:

im meeting up with him in a coupple of weeks (poss) and have his msn addy but he is hardly ever online i hardly even see him much because he has exams. what shall i do shall i tell him or not? please help! and how do i go about making first impretions (signs) good?

the age difference means nothin hunny :smile:

i was going out wiht a fella for a while who was a 1st year in university and i was only in my GCSE year, its hard but it could work.... but is it worth leaving your boyfriend over him for?

first impressions would be sayin 'hi' when you walk past or if you see him out say 'hiya hows u' or something like that, it builds confidence.... :smile:

but good luck xoxo

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