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Reply 1
Well funny u should say this ive decided i actually prefer an average sized one to a huge thing...
Tell us how big yours is and we'll tell you whether it matters. :biggrin:
Reply 3
Thickness is better than length. And luckily my new bf is very, um, thick
Reply 4
It's not the size, it's how you use it.
Smiley_Me
It's not the size, it's how you use it.


lol thats true.....even a man with a smaller than average penis can still perform as well as an average sized if he knows a good technique xoxo
the male preoccupation with size......

That being said, i spose there are cases where size does matter - such as below 3-4 inches and above 8-9 (depending on the girl). Baring in mind that the vagina is only 4 inches deep with a maximum elastic limit of about 8 inches, so long as you're in that range you should be ok.

Also, there are only nerves in the first third (i think) of the vagina - so really, to give her sexual stimulation thats where your penis matters - its you guys that get the physical pleasure so deep. Seeing as the key to orgasm (or so im told, not like i can achieve one) is to try and focus the attention of your movements against her clitoris (takes some odd positions mind) or if you are really talented to hit her g-spot.

But really, size doesnt matter that much, yes there are some issues surrounding it, but really, for most girls, sex is an emotional experience more than a physical. ts about being close to the person you love!

At any rate, i wouldnt want a massive penis in me! dear me no..... ow
what's the average girth then? like we know what the average length is.
Reply 8
Sounds fine to me :smile: just make sure you use it effectively.
My Penis size is 6 1/2 inch and girth is 5 1/2, i reckon this is ideal for a girl :biggrin:
Reply 10
lol thats true.....even a man with a smaller than average penis can still perform as well as an average sized if he knows a good technique xoxo

:wtf?:
lol r u talking from experience
Reply 11
che guevara
Girls, does the penis size matter to u?


Silly boys! :rolleyes: I'm sure it's the guy who cares 10 times more than a girl ever will.. seriously, it's not like we hide rulers under our beds.
Reply 12
Kunster1337
My Penis size is 6 1/2 inch and girth is 5 1/2, i reckon this is ideal for a girl :biggrin:


5 1/2 girth? :confused:
JonnyB
5 1/2 girth? :confused:


If it's as wide as it is long, wouldn't it look, well, stumpy?
Reply 14
I was thinking that myself! more like a rectangle than anything!
Reply 15
Maybe he means circumference??

And anything between about 5 and 8 is fine, girls really don't care. If it's too big it just hurts!

Cxx
che guevara
Girls, does the penis size matter to u? coz i have read in lots of magazines and newspapers that size doesnt matter..

Che, you are SO materialistic and subtly perverted too :p: First the asking for first-time experiences, from a FEMALE perspective, then the worry over size.

Make her laugh, excite her, turn her on. Size does not matter. Ann Summers and the like make money because a certain demographic use toys either on their own or with company, but hardly ever as a SUBSTITUTE for their partner.

Think about it.
Reply 17
feelthesunshine
Che, you are SO materialistic and subtly perverted too :p: First the asking for first-time experiences, from a FEMALE perspective, then the worry over size.

Make her laugh, excite her, turn her on. Size does not matter. Ann Summers and the like make money because a certain demographic use toys either on their own or with company, but hardly ever as a SUBSTITUTE for their partner.

Think about it.

They were marketing their Platinum Rabbit as a substitute for a partner... hehe well that was when my friend Kim dragged me around dildo shopping :rolleyes: The sales assistant was making that point quite avidly.
According to statistical surveys, when asking girls whether penis length or penis girth (girth is circumference) matters the most in sexual intercourse, 72% said that it was the thickness that mattered most.

* Of course, one has to be sensible about this. If your penis is 2 inches erect then having good girth won't make up much for it! On the other hand, if it's really long but thin, then that's a downer...

Although there seems to be some variation regarding the average length of a male penis, here are the facts. Surveys requesting penis size anonymously and measured by the man himself, tend to give an average penis size of about 6.2 inches. It is obviously believed that some exaggeration has played a part in these measurements. In contrast, the average penis size when batches of men have been measured by doctors has given an average of around 5.9 inches; although clearly more accurate as it isn't liable to exaggeration, there is also the factor that one has to be comfortable enough about their penis size to come forward and get measured in the survey; this usually correlates to length so again there may be slight exaggeration. Thus, the average is thought to be believed to be about 5.7 inches, and this average is thought to be quite accurate.

Penis size is measured from the point where the penis intersects the pubic region/stomach to the tip of the penis.

There are also deviations amongst different races. White males have an average of about the overall average length, whereas black males are about half an inch above and chinese males are about half an inch below. So the stereotype of "black have big cocks, chinks have small dicks" has some truth in it.

As for penis girth, the average for men is 4.9 inches. However, remember, if your penis is longer than average and you have average girth, then your penis will be slightly thin and the vice versa applies; it's relative to the length in determining whether its thick. or not. This is measured around the point where the penis is thickest; this is usually the base, but can vary from man to man. About 25% of men have a penis that is of constant thickness from base to tip.

In conclusion; size doesn't usually matter unless you're at the extremes (I'd consider this as under 3.5 inch erect and above 8 inch erect) and if you're within this range then there is no reason to feel that you can't have sex comfortably; you can hit the G Spot with an under 3 inch penis (really!).

But also remember, that what's more important than penis size, is:

- Your face
- Your body
- Your confidence.
- Your personality/character.

Nima (Proud owner of a penis with 6.1 inches of girth, go on son!)
Reply 19
Nima
Nima (Proud owner of a penis with 6.1 inches of girth, go on son!)

Congratulations