First off about fattsos going the gym; You aren't born 300lbs. Anyway that would be leaving it a little late now wouldn't it.
Secondly, with regards metabolism; This is ONLY of consequence when you eat more food than you really need. If you exercise and therefore require the food you eat you will not put on weight. It you do very little physical activities in a day and have a high metabolism then you wont gain weight very fast. If you have a low metabolism but still do nothing you will become fat quickly.
The point is, low metabolism or not, if you arent producing power you wont use any food and so the food you eat will be stored. There is no getting away from the fact that everybody will loose weight with exercise.
Yeah everybody wil lose weight with exercise, but for some it is harder than others. Even if you have a low metabolism and do lots of exercise, you need to eat otherwise you can't sustain that exercise, you get cramp from lack of salt and you need some sugar originally or else your body turns to devour the muscle. I think it is possible for obese people to lose weight relatively simply by eating a little less and moving a little more but for others it is harder.
and while wer on it - il b what u consider a fat girl then. i am size 16 and bigger than the average girl.
with all this 'fattys' and 'shoudl b left to die' and 'sit on their arse all day blah blah blah'
everyday all my life i have never over eaten. i hardly have chocolate and i hardly have crisps. i excerise a lot compared to a lot of people - i do dancing (all over excersise) swimming, bike riding and i walk eveyrwhere. no car!
however, i am still fat.
i am also what u wud class as ugly. i dont wear so muhc makeup a 12"inch ruler wud get lost in it, i dont spend 3 hrs makin myself look perfect. i dont have blemishless skin, small face etc etc.
so i am ugly.
i dont wear all up to date fashion items all the time. i wear what i want. not meanin i dress like a geek or grandma but i dont c the point in spendin 30 quid on an plain fcuk t shirt when i can buy a nice patterened one in select or new look for under a tenner.
so i am not fashional / cool / 'in'
so in conclusion i am fat, ugly and not "in" but i wudnt swap my life for anyones! i av the nicest friends, the best boyfriend and a (poor) life but hey! i love it!
so shove ur petty "fattys dont do nothin to help themselves" and "no one wants a fat bird" people like that r shallow and dont realise that no1 wants the same as them. i like bein size 16, i wud hate to be anythin less, and my boyfriend wud too.
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yes size does matter, but if you're happy the way you are then its up to you and theres only you who has to deal with that "problem". i myself am not the model-like of people, but i wouldnt change who i am just for the happiness of people around me, i have alot of prospects (more than alot of people!) and im gonna makes something of myself, not letting my size get in my way. big people may not be attractive to some people but to others they are