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A question for Muslims...is it okay to have gay friends?

My best mate is gay. We are so close and I just found out a few days ago that he is gay.
Is it ok to remain friends with him? I love him dearly much, but I need to know...I watched this program called 'Skins' and there's two best friends, Anwar (who is Muslim) and Maxxie (who is gay), and Anwar tells Maxxie that he can't be his friend anymore because he's a Muslim and he doesn't choose his friends. Poor Maxxie was really really sad and offended...:frown:
So what do you Muslims think? Is there anywhere written in Islam where you can't be friends with gay people?

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Reply 1
If you base your life on skins you'll end up being hit by a bus.
Reply 2
Would you honestly let religion come between you and your close friend?


Really OP, don't let it ruin a good friendship.
but you forgot at then end they became best mates with each other again :awesome:

i dont think you should let religion cme between you and you close mate
Reply 5
I have no idea. But look at it like this. In Islam, smoking is haram. How many muslims are friends with those who drink and smoke?

Homosexuality is a sin in Islam. Just like drinking, smoking and sex outside marriage.
Reply 6
matrix15
If you base your life on skins you deserve to be hit by a bus.

Fixed.

There's no reason why you can't be friends with someone who is gay, if you can't be friends with someone who does things that are sins in Islam that means you can only be friends with other muslims - after all why should being gay be different from eating pork or having sex before marriage? They're sins too but I bet you have friends that do those things...
troll.
Reply 8
Silent Man
I have no idea. But look at it like this. In Islam, smoking is haram. How many muslims are friends with those who drink and smoke?

Homosexuality is a sin in Islam. Just like drinking, smoking and sex outside marriage.


Smoking isn't haram, just an fyi. It's not at the level of drinking, eating pork, etc--those things are defined as things that you absolutely cannot do.
Reply 9
yeah it is
im a muslim and i have a gay best friend :]
i love him and i dont see there being a problem as long as they dont make a move on you
well im a girl anyway so...
Reply 10
Are you gay? No I assume. You can't choose other people's sexuality and it's only a sin if you are gay is it not? What your friends do doesn't matter. Homosexuality isn't contagious. And I don't think you should let religion come in the way of friendship.
Would your religion really stop you from being friends with someone, albeit that you're not carrying out the 'wrong' deeds he is?
Generally you can't be a close friend with someone who commits anto-islamic acts such as drinking, fornication, drugs and that includes being gay.
Reply 13
Duh it's alright. I'm muslim with gay friends as well as straight/bi.
Know your own ******* religion so you can justify believing in it.
La Môme
Smoking isn't haram, just an fyi. It's not at the level of drinking, eating pork, etc--those things are defined as things that you absolutely cannot do.

YES IT IS! Anything that harms your HEALTH is haram in Islam!
Go consult an expert before you make these silly assumptions!
I would love to know how many people replying to this thread are actually muslim! The question was directed at muslims!

OP: If I were you, I'd ask at your local mosque or someone with a lot of knowledge, the responses you're gonna get on tsr won't be the most helpful.
Reply 17
homo = haram.
If you were only allowed to have sinless friends, you'd probably end up with no friends at all.
just_sanaa
I would love to know how many people replying to this thread are actually muslim! The question was directed at muslims!

OP: If I were you, I'd ask at your local mosque or someone with a lot of knowledge, the responses you're gonna get on tsr won't be the most helpful.


In what way have we not been helpful? :dontknow:

Most of the answers here are sensible and the others are either blatantly trolls or just outright dumb :p: