Turn on thread page Beta

if i guy calls u weird does he not like u watch

Announcements
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    stupid thread i know but i fancy this guy who thinks and says im weird. does it mean he doesnt like me even as a friend. GUYS can ya help out plz.
    ps i think he thinks im weird coz i act strange around him coz i dont know how to act in front of him and get embarrased
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by emmz)
    stupid thread i know but i fancy this guy who thinks and says im weird. does it mean he doesnt like me even as a friend. GUYS can ya help out plz.
    ps i think he thinks im weird coz i act strange around him coz i dont know how to act in front of him and get embarrased
    That's a weird thing to ask. :confused:
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    It really depends on what you've been doing, i.e. if you've been totally freak like then the chances are he genuinely thinks your weird and probably doesnt wanna know you. But if you've been the type of weird i think you have like the embarred, in loved, weird, then he may still not like you or he may be saying it in a joking way, guys do, do that. Also some people say your weird if they can't thinl of anything else to say i.e. they're lost for words so he could reli fancie and is struggling for something to say so he blurts out the first thing and if your being weird it's an easy topic for him coz it takes off the heat and intensity.!!!!
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by kissmequick)
    It really depends on what you've been doing, i.e. if you've been totally freak like then the chances are he genuinely thinks your weird and probably doesnt wanna know you. But if you've been the type of weird i think you have like the embarred, in loved, weird, then he may still not like you or he may be saying it in a joking way, guys do, do that. Also some people say your weird if they can't thinl of anything else to say i.e. they're lost for words so he could reli fancie and is struggling for something to say so he blurts out the first thing and if your being weird it's an easy topic for him coz it takes off the heat and intensity.!!!!
    well i act really unpredictable in front of him but he never shows any signs of hatred and still talks to me in general(but acts same with evry1 else) but i know he really does think im weird. wot im askin is do ya think he likes me any less
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    I don't think he means anything by it. Men just say whatever enters their head, so long as it fits a situation. So long as you have a nice body, a personality and a nice looking face, you're liked.

    This is where every other man on the board disagrees with me. :rolleyes:
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by emmz)
    well i act really unpredictable in front of him but he never shows any signs of hatred and still talks to me in general(but acts same with evry1 else) but i know he really does think im weird. wot im askin is do ya think he likes me any less
    you really do need to define weird, because it's very important whether its been little nervous things or you doing thinks like (extreme sittuation) asking to eat his crap. I think that guys really are quite straightforward and if he does talk to ya it means he likes ya otherwise he would blank you trust me
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by kissmequick)
    you really do need to define weird, because it's very important whether its been little nervous things or you doing thinks like (extreme sittuation) asking to eat his crap. I think that guys really are quite straightforward and if he does talk to ya it means he likes ya otherwise he would blank you trust me
    lol i agree
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by kissmequick)
    you really do need to define weird, because it's very important whether its been little nervous things or you doing thinks like (extreme sittuation) asking to eat his crap. I think that guys really are quite straightforward and if he does talk to ya it means he likes ya otherwise he would blank you trust me
    lol weird as in not acting like other girls
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by emmz)
    lol weird as in not acting like other girls
    do u want 2 act like other girls, but it just doesnt feel right?
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by emmz)
    lol weird as in not acting like other girls
    The problem is again you need to define weird say some of the things you've been doing coz all girls act in their own weird and wonderfully induvidual way. No girls act the same thats why men will never fully understand them and will say things like "your weird"
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by kissmequick)
    The problem is again you need to define weird say some of the things you've been doing coz all girls act in their own weird and wonderfully induvidual way. No girls act the same thats why men will never fully understand them and will say things like "your weird"
    well if i tell u YOU will also think im weird lol. but at lunchtime evry1 was eating wotever they bought and i didnt want to eat in front of him coz i was kinda embarrased of gettin ketchup round my mouth lol. he asked me if id had anythin and i said i felt sick and ive said this several lunchtimes. ( its kind of the quiet weird lol )
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by emmz)
    lol weird as in not acting like other girls
    Most girls are like programmed robots who giggle, gossip, shop, moan and laugh at everything a man says. If you are different, then surely that's a good thing.
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by emmz)
    well if i tell u YOU will also think im weird lol. but at lunchtime evry1 was eating wotever they bought and i didnt want to eat in front of him coz i was kinda embarrased of gettin ketchup round my mouth lol. he asked me if id had anythin and i said i felt sick and ive said this several lunchtimes. ( its kind of the quiet weird lol )
    do you not have a hotmail account because i could probably talk properly to you then!! Well thats not nessaserily weird thats just nerves, and it's a bit weird that its about ketchup but its understandable and believe it or not for some reason guys find **** like that funny. He may however become worried your beliemic or gonna become anerexic even if your not you should stop doing that.
    Also the thing is how does he act around you, do you ever notice him stutter, or go quiet or any indication of nerves or signals of interest beyond friends.

    A good thing to do is too get a reli gd mate who is willing to lie for you and then send him an email asking if he will go out with you see the reply and if its bad or there isnt one wait for him to approach you then say your mate sent it without you knowing lol spares the embarrassment and you remain friends with no awkwardness
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by emmz)
    well if i tell u YOU will also think im weird lol. but at lunchtime evry1 was eating wotever they bought and i didnt want to eat in front of him coz i was kinda embarrased of gettin ketchup round my mouth lol. he asked me if id had anythin and i said i felt sick and ive said this several lunchtimes. ( its kind of the quiet weird lol )
    That doesn't sound weird to me, it just sounds like your shy arround him, which is perfectly normal. This is'nt easy at first, but try acting like you are talking to anyone of your other freinds, don't think of him as a guy you like, with some work it makes it easier to act like yourself in those situations. In time you'll find you have no problem or minimal problem being yourself arround a guy your attracted to.
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by kissmequick)
    do you not have a hotmail account because i could probably talk properly to you then!! Well thats not nessaserily weird thats just nerves, and it's a bit weird that its about ketchup but its understandable and believe it or not for some reason guys find **** like that funny. He may however become worried your beliemic or gonna become anerexic even if your not you should stop doing that.
    Also the thing is how does he act around you, do you ever notice him stutter, or go quiet or any indication of nerves or signals of interest beyond friends.

    A good thing to do is too get a reli gd mate who is willing to lie for you and then send him an email asking if he will go out with you see the reply and if its bad or there isnt one wait for him to approach you then say your mate sent it without you knowing lol spares the embarrassment and you remain friends with no awkwardness
    lol good idea. he acts around me as he does around evry 1 else really but i made him say i was weird by telling a joke and then saying to evry1 ' ignore me im weird' in a joking way and then he went and said yes i know u are i figured it out ages ago. (he was dead serious i cud tell) but he just treats me like he does evry 1 else but im just wonderin will he still like me in a friendly way (coz this is the first step lol)
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by Infinity)
    That doesn't sound weird to me, it just sounds like your shy arround him, which is perfectly normal. This is'nt easy at first, but try acting like you are talking to anyone of your other freinds, don't think of him as a guy you like, with some work it makes it easier to act like yourself in those situations. In time you'll find you have no problem or minimal problem being yourself arround a guy your attracted to.
    yeah thanx for advice
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by emmz)
    lol good idea. he acts around me as he does around evry 1 else really but i made him say i was weird by telling a joke and then saying to evry1 ' ignore me im weird' in a joking way and then he went and said yes i know u are i figured it out ages ago. (he was dead serious i cud tell) but he just treats me like he does evry 1 else but im just wonderin will he still like me in a friendly way (coz this is the first step lol)
    The problem is when he said it are you deffinently sure that he didnt mean it taking the piss, as in your special sort of saying your a spaz (not that you are). Or he could have meant that your special, unique, an induvidual. The best thing to do with a guy is to straigh up ask him their neva that fussed about anything, and if your too scared then ask a mate of his to casually drop in ooo what do you think about her she's nice (refering to you) and then you will get his reaction. Guys always talk about girls so it won't be hard. Most guys also do wat we call a jiggle test when we first see a girl and it's not always consious but we all do it. Sometimes in groups discussing the lady, weird creatures us men eh. But theres many ways of going about provoking a reaction out of him you just need to pick one so you can find out how he feels
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by kissmequick)
    The problem is when he said it are you deffinently sure that he didnt mean it taking the piss, as in your special sort of saying your a spaz (not that you are). Or he could have meant that your special, unique, an induvidual. The best thing to do with a guy is to straigh up ask him their neva that fussed about anything, and if your too scared then ask a mate of his to casually drop in ooo what do you think about her she's nice (refering to you) and then you will get his reaction. Guys always talk about girls so it won't be hard. Most guys also do wat we call a jiggle test when we first see a girl and it's not always consious but we all do it. Sometimes in groups discussing the lady, weird creatures us men eh. But theres many ways of going about provoking a reaction out of him you just need to pick one so you can find out how he feels
    yeah he definatly meant it coz he also said im eccentric (which is kinda same thing innit) in front of me and friends coz we were just thinkin of a word to describe each other lol. he doesnt treat me any different to any1 else apart from occasionally when i say somethin he stares at me weird then starts smirkin and laughin in a friendly way without speaking. then hell say somethin like ' i wish some 1 cud figure u out'
    (its hard to describe but this is wots hard to work out)
    other than this he treats me no different.
    thanx for ure advice anway i might try wot ya said lol
    Offline

    0
    ReputationRep:
    he probably want to get to know you and understand you but your too confusing for him and he doesnt understand your language the same way as your confused about his, just give it a go it can't hurt, and eccentric basically means sort of hyper active and weird, and generouly over exited and over zelous
    • Thread Starter
    Offline

    1
    ReputationRep:
    (Original post by kissmequick)
    he probably want to get to know you and understand you but your too confusing for him and he doesnt understand your language the same way as your confused about his, just give it a go it can't hurt, and eccentric basically means sort of hyper active and weird, and generouly over exited and over zelous
    k maybe in few week ill give it a go lol thanx for all your help on translating the guy language.
 
 
 
Poll
Who is most responsible for your success at university
Useful resources

The Student Room, Get Revising and Marked by Teachers are trading names of The Student Room Group Ltd.

Register Number: 04666380 (England and Wales), VAT No. 806 8067 22 Registered Office: International House, Queens Road, Brighton, BN1 3XE

Write a reply...
Reply
Hide
Reputation gems: You get these gems as you gain rep from other members for making good contributions and giving helpful advice.