Hey. I need help from anyone who has any ideas about how to deal with my mum. Shes an alcoholic, but not only this, she drinks in secret and seems to think none of us in the family know about it. She's also a serial liar, for example she tells everyone she has quit smoking and then smokes in secret too. She is really bad at covering it and the drinking up and lies to our faces and denies she does anything like that. It might not seem like a massive problem but it makes living at home so difficult sometimes. She get very argumentative with anyone she can wen she has been drinking, is often an embarassment in front of guests and can very easily evenings out by starting arguments, and thats including occasions like birthdays! Is anyone else in a similar situation to me and not know wot to do? Anyone been through this and got it sorted out? Any advice at all would be great cos i havent a clue! Thanks x