I need a girlfriend (serious)

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    I am 19, a virgin, scared to talk to girls, I am sick of seeing others in relationship and not me, it gets me depressed, i like a girl who works accross my shop but because im too much of a pussy to talk to her, i probably won't get her, what do i do ?
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    Accept the fact that you will not get her and try to adjust to being a lifelong member of the Virgin Club.
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    Get some confidence first, then approach some girls.
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    (Original post by Hello_Kitty)
    Get some confidence first, then approach some girls.
    "get some confidence, get some confidence" thats what people tell me all the godamn time, easier said than done
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    MAN UP AND DO IT

    It will be hard but you just have to do it! You can't give up now! Did Bruce give up on Matilda when presented with that huge cake? No he did not! I'd try and think of some more relevant things here but I can't so I'm going to roll with Bruce.

    YOU CAN DO IT!
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    (Original post by php14)
    "get some confidence, get some confidence" thats what people tell me all the godamn time, easier said than done
    And they're right, if you don't start believing in yourself and taking some chances, you'll miss out on many things in life.
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    (Original post by php14)
    "get some confidence, get some confidence" thats what people tell me all the godamn time, easier said than done
    What would you suggest then? There's little else you can do. Even those with **** loads of a cash who get themselves a 'trophy gal' still have that initial confidence.
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    (Original post by racheer)
    MAN UP AND DO IT

    It will be hard but you just have to do it! You can't give up now! Did Bruce give up on Matilda when presented with that huge cake? No he did not! I'd try and think of some more relevant things here but I can't so I'm going to roll with Bruce.

    YOU CAN DO IT!
    yeah thats the main advice people give me, they tell me to man up and just do it, its hard for me though
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    (Original post by php14)
    yeah thats the main advice people give me, they tell me to man up and just do it, its hard for me though

    Life is hard!
    If you don't do it now, you'll die a virgin. :yes:

    Think of all the funtimes you can have when you finally pluck up the courage.
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    (Original post by php14)
    yeah thats the main advice people give me, they tell me to man up and just do it, its hard for me though
    What you need is a decent wingman.

    I'd volunteer my services, but there's the small matter of the Irish Sea... [assuming you're not Irish]
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    Grow a pair or by some chloroform.
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    (Original post by racheer)
    Life is hard!
    If you don't do it now, you'll die a virgin. :yes:

    Think of all the funtimes you can have when you finally pluck up the courage.
    the thng is im not even ugly, ive been told im good looking but i dont know, its just that i don't how to strike up the convo
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    (Original post by php14)
    the thng is im not even ugly, ive been told im good looking but i dont know, its just that i don't how to strike up the convo
    as said above, you need a wingman.
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    (Original post by racheer)
    as said above, you need a wingman.
    not really... what has that got to do with anything ? wignmans are useless
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    (Original post by php14)
    "get some confidence, get some confidence" thats what people tell me all the godamn time, easier said than done
    Fake it then.
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    (Original post by php14)
    not really... what has that got to do with anything ? wignmans are useless

    They're not, the scariest part of talking to someone is starting the conversation. They will start the conversation for you so you have to talk back to her you can't just not talk, that's rude.

    Get a wingman. :yes:
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    (Original post by racheer)
    They're not, the scariest part of talking to someone is starting the conversation. They will start the conversation for you so you have to talk back to her you can't just not talk, that's rude.

    Get a wingman. :yes:
    so what if she's interested in him, and tells me to gtfo..lol i can see it backfiring badly
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    Try learning to talk to them first.

    Lets crawl before we try running.
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    (Original post by php14)
    so what if she's interested in him, and tells me to gtfo..lol i can see it backfiring badly

    Try to look on the bright side of life!

    Or get a really unattractive wingman, sorted.
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